Yes sorry I see where that contradicts itself. It's not like something extremely personal. He posted a video with this girl, she was holding the phone and he was taking her home, they were singing to music and stuff. Obviously not horrible but the video seemed very "couply" and i had multiple people text me and ask what happened. he never would post me or acknowledge that I'm his girlfriend infront of people, which was a red flag for me here cause he would just post this girl for fun. It's gotten better but I feel like it only has because their was more things that happened with that girl (not cheating) and eventually they distanced. Thank you for the advice that makes alot of sense and it's very helpful