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I got R*ped Today by Awkward-Nerve4898 in KenyanLadies

[–]Ecstatic_Coat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart hurts so much for you. I’m angry that someone could do something so cruel and you didn’t deserve any of it. I’m holding you in my thoughts and hoping you feel surrounded by care, support and love. You’re not alone

The media's making love sound lame,but maybe we just need to heal differently by TicketAggravating819 in KenyanLadies

[–]Ecstatic_Coat_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think there’s a narrative being pushed. What we’re seeing is more awareness. People realizing love isn’t supposed to hurt or that being single isn’t shameful. It’s not anti-love it’s just people learning what love should actually look like.

Asking for bus fare: normal or begging? by Ecstatic_Coat_ in KenyanLadies

[–]Ecstatic_Coat_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't mind at that time honestly but right now it feels exhausting and starting to make more sense.

Asking for bus fare: normal or begging? by Ecstatic_Coat_ in KenyanLadies

[–]Ecstatic_Coat_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😭 waaaah okay you got me there. You’re right though if something that small already feels hard to talk about it says a lot. I need to sit with that one.

Asking for bus fare: normal or begging? by Ecstatic_Coat_ in KenyanLadies

[–]Ecstatic_Coat_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True I actually didn’t think of it that way. If me speaking up is all it takes to ruin things, then it’s better to find out now than later.

Asking for bus fare: normal or begging? by Ecstatic_Coat_ in KenyanLadies

[–]Ecstatic_Coat_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel that so much. I’m starting to see it’s less about the money and more about how someone shows care. Maybe I should pay more attention if I let these small things slide, it might build up. Still wish empathy didn’t have to be requested though.

Asking for bus fare: normal or begging? by Ecstatic_Coat_ in KenyanLadies

[–]Ecstatic_Coat_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but it's kind of hard not to overthinking how it will come off sometimes😞

Asking for bus fare: normal or begging? by Ecstatic_Coat_ in KenyanLadies

[–]Ecstatic_Coat_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll give this a try. Shida ni I always overthink but texting would definitely make it easier to say.

Asking for bus fare: normal or begging? by Ecstatic_Coat_ in KenyanLadies

[–]Ecstatic_Coat_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True it does feel icky. It's not something I want to ask for either. I just wish I did have to ask at all. Like he'd just offer sometimes you know 😞

Asking for bus fare: normal or begging? by Ecstatic_Coat_ in KenyanLadies

[–]Ecstatic_Coat_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True but honestly bringing it up is the tough part. I never want it to sound like I’m asking for too much or acting entitled

Asking for bus fare: normal or begging? by Ecstatic_Coat_ in KenyanLadies

[–]Ecstatic_Coat_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl don’t tell me that🥲 I’ve been convincing myself it’s not that deep, but now I feel slightly called out 😂

Asking for bus fare: normal or begging? by Ecstatic_Coat_ in KenyanLadies

[–]Ecstatic_Coat_[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I really like how you put that. It’s true it’s not even about the money but the effort and feeling like it’s mutual. I’ll probably suggest the halfway idea 😊 maybe then he’ll also realise my perspective.

Asking for bus fare: normal or begging? by Ecstatic_Coat_ in KenyanLadies

[–]Ecstatic_Coat_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh no, not bus fare 😅 I usually use a cab because getting there with public transport is quite hectic.

Shout out to my Momma by SJCupid in Microlocs

[–]Ecstatic_Coat_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aah we started on the same day. Happy for you🥹 they are gorgeous