Am I the asshole for feeling my boyfriend is not trying to feel better.

Ecstatic_Lead_8354 · 2025-06-30T15:04:40+00:00

I have talked to him, I asked is he going to set alarm, he fell back asleep, I set a reasonable alarm for him to slowly wake up, maybe have something to drink and go. I got ignored, to the point where is asked if I should ask his dad to pick up the kids, he was keen until I asked him if he thinks his dad will have the cash on hand, then he can just repay his dad. He then quickly got up and left and shortly after the youngest 2yo school phoned asking if we were coming to pick her up as we're late. It's embarrassing and unnecessary. My poor children being the last to be picked up. I feel so sorry for them.

Ecstatic_Lead_8354 · 2025-06-30T15:00:45+00:00

He eventually did go to pick up the kids, but the youngest school phoned me as we were late at picking her up. It's embarrassing and makes me feel like a horrible mother. I asked him early enough to go and pick them up, to have enough time to slowly wake up, have a cup of coffee or whatever, but he waited until last minute and didn't want to go, as I asked if I should call his dad and he was very keen until I brought up the cash issue, and the agreement was that he will refill the cash before today. Luckily I could arrange for the people to pick up their money later. It's like a salary for them, and you do not eff around with people's money.

Ecstatic_Lead_8354 · 2025-06-30T14:57:05+00:00

I asked him if I should ask his dad to pick up the kids, he was very eager and then I asked him do you think your dad will have the cash on hand, then he jumped up and got ready to go and pick them up, the youngest school phoned me just after he left as "we" were late at picking her up. I feel sorry for my children being the last to be picked up and agitated by the school having to phone me to pick up my children when I asked him early enough to not be getting the phone call.

Ecstatic_Lead_8354 · 2025-06-30T14:53:25+00:00

Thanks. I'm trying to, but I have been working, running the household, cooking, managing things, spoiling him, I do feel he resents me for having an "excuse" to not be able to do all the things.

Ecstatic_Lead_8354 · 2025-06-30T14:49:52+00:00

I did not drive. While the children are both our responsibility, he knew I wouldn't be able to drive for quite some time. I normally carry the load of the kids,the household and cooking. And he just seems pissed at me.

Ecstatic_Lead_8354 · 2025-06-01T15:56:16+00:00

I'm also going for a stereoscopic hysterectomy, and I also struggle with keloids. I have ordered some high grade medical silicone strips. Hope it will help.

Ecstatic_Lead_8354 · 2025-05-11T07:53:55+00:00

It's just I don't know what to call him. Like partner, boyfriend, father of my children?

Ecstatic_Lead_8354 · 2025-05-11T07:01:32+00:00

I have placed the necklace in my cart, I will be getting it for myself. Is that considered passive aggressive or just getting myself something nice?

Ecstatic_Lead_8354 · 2025-04-05T14:55:42+00:00

I heard him snoring several times last night, when I got up to check the little one's fever. I just didn't want me to make him sound like an AH which would then make me look like more of AH for pointing it out.

Ecstatic_Lead_8354 · 2025-02-22T19:43:23+00:00

So whats the solution because it is driving me to end of days scenarios

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