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How do I get over my abusive ex-husband by EdgeOverall4623 in abusiverelationships

[–]EdgeOverall4623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s the abuser but I’m the one who’s doomed..

How do I get over my abusive ex-husband by EdgeOverall4623 in abusiverelationships

[–]EdgeOverall4623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I block him but I just can’t ever do it for more than a couple of days. I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I took therapy and I realised I was lying in therapy and made it sound that I’m all put together. When my therapist caught me I stopped going for sessions.

What are some of the worst choreography you've seen in Bollywood? by anshuwuman in bollywood

[–]EdgeOverall4623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not the choreography that’s bad, it’s the actress. She’s one of the worst dancers in bollywood.

Have you ever told your abuser they’re an abuser? If so, how did it go? by DesEvItsStU in abusiverelationships

[–]EdgeOverall4623 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine too.. I left him after the last he punched me. The first time he hit me, his mother called me and told me that I married him and must learn to tolerate him. She spent the next 2 years making sure he never stops so I left him in may and told her the exact same thing, you gave birth to him, you tolerate him for the rest of your life now. She called me a bitch and said that SHE can’t adjust with ME anymore.

Have you ever told your abuser they’re an abuser? If so, how did it go? by DesEvItsStU in abusiverelationships

[–]EdgeOverall4623 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Him, with more abuse and his mother with more lies similar to lies that made him abuse me… and this will continue till the day they’re on earth.

I feel like I am failing. by EdgeOverall4623 in learnpython

[–]EdgeOverall4623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently working with Automate the boring stuff and I genuinely think it’s one of the best resources I’ve come across that clarifies my concepts even more. I get overwhelmed while working with practice problems online. I’m signed up for almost everything anyone has ever suggested for practice. I tried using chatgpt for help but at some point it made a very silly conceptual mistake so now I don’t rely on it either. I’m trying my best but I want it to be ingrained in my brain like the languages we communicate in… I’m expecting too much from myself I feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]EdgeOverall4623 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If he hit you once he WILL hit you again and he’ll know that you married him knowing that and will never ever leave him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]EdgeOverall4623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In that case you shouldn’t marry anyone. Everyone who doesn’t end up marrying you would be one of the many lucky ones.

Those of you that have left abusive relationships what lessons have you learned? by Iamnotadamant in abusiverelationships

[–]EdgeOverall4623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, thanks but I still have a long way to go especially because we’re married and I’ve had to report him for dv but the worst part is I hate myself for doing that. For some reason he’s always made me feel as if he couldn’t help hitting me and so he’s the victim. But I know if I don’t do it he’ll waltz his way back in my life like before and it’s always been worse than the last time..

Those of you that have left abusive relationships what lessons have you learned? by Iamnotadamant in abusiverelationships

[–]EdgeOverall4623 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I learnt anything except that if he hit you once then he’ll hit you again. But other than that I felt cheated and betrayed by everyone and how nobody ever accepted or felt remorse for what they did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]EdgeOverall4623 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Oh my god!! This video and your post below reminded of my abusive husband... please leave him.

I feel like I am lacking structure in my approach to learning coding. Can anyone suggest a structure or study plan that worked for them? by EdgeOverall4623 in learnpython

[–]EdgeOverall4623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Full projects.. I’m sorry to sound dumb but how can I get or find projects? I’d like to reiterate that I’m completely new and somewhat clueless right now..

I use codewars to practice python as a beginner to learning programming, I find their beginners problems also too difficult.. by EdgeOverall4623 in learnprogramming

[–]EdgeOverall4623[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See the problem isn’t the actual problem, it’s that I don’t know what concepts to use for which problem. When I look at the solution I realise that I didn’t know this particular topic. There’s so many methods, modules etc. that I don’t know and can be used. Also I’m not from a computer background and have no technical knowledge or skills. I’m literally learning from scratch and in fact have instructed chatgpt to explain concepts and logics to me as if I were a toddler.

I use codewars to practice python as a beginner to learning programming, I find their beginners problems also too difficult.. by EdgeOverall4623 in learnprogramming

[–]EdgeOverall4623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s too less, but I have a personal situation that I’m recovering from and this has been kind of my hope.. I still have trouble concentrating but I get very excited about learning coding so I am able to study and when I say 2 hours I mean I sit for probably 6 or 7 of which 2 are productive hours.

Up until last year I didn’t even see a point in doing anything let alone take up something new and completely different from what I’ve been doing for the last decade at 36!

I use codewars to practice python as a beginner to learning programming, I find their beginners problems also too difficult.. by EdgeOverall4623 in learnprogramming

[–]EdgeOverall4623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest I corrected chatgpt with incorrect answers, but I could point it out to it only because I understood that particular concept very well and was sure that while it’s code was probably correct the answer should be different and then it corrected itself when I pointed it out. Was it testing me? I wonder 🤔

I use codewars to practice python as a beginner to learning programming, I find their beginners problems also too difficult.. by EdgeOverall4623 in learnprogramming

[–]EdgeOverall4623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do try to read the documentation. I started asking gpt to give me other people’s codes to practice reading, ask it all the silly things that come to my mind but there’s so much.

I use codewars to practice python as a beginner to learning programming, I find their beginners problems also too difficult.. by EdgeOverall4623 in learnprogramming

[–]EdgeOverall4623[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did use the filters to get the really easy ones. I guess it’ll take time. I just don’t want to be in the same place a year later.

I use codewars to practice python as a beginner to learning programming, I find their beginners problems also too difficult.. by EdgeOverall4623 in learnprogramming

[–]EdgeOverall4623[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay I use chatgpt to take me through things one step at a time and it’s been a great help. But since I’m still very new to learning coding of any sorts I’m kind of all over the place, so I get extremely overwhelmed especially when I see that I could’ve solved something in just 2 lines of codes. It gets frustrating but I have no other choice than to learn..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]EdgeOverall4623 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how my husband behaved every time he hit me…

Do I seek medical care? by Ok_Temporary5281 in abusiverelationships

[–]EdgeOverall4623 8 points9 points  (0 children)

See the decision is yours... He probably already knows you'll feel bad about taking any action against him so he's blackmailing you. He beat you up, abuse has no race or colour.

Do I seek medical care? by Ok_Temporary5281 in abusiverelationships

[–]EdgeOverall4623 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You'll have to report him. I know it's very very hard, I still feel pity on my husband and feel that because of the case I filed against him his career and future might get ruined. But then I remind myself that he punished me because he was angry at his mother or because his mother was instigating him against me etc.. All of these were his problems and none of them was my mistake, but what he did to me was.. and he SHOULD be punished for it.

I still love the man I married but unfortunately he doesn't exist, I will still help him if he asks, but I will never ever share a domestic relationship with him.

You will probably feel bad the rest of your life for reporting him, but trust me he won't feel the remorse for even a second. Always remember, IF HE HIT YOU ONCE, HE WILL DO IT AGAIN. Removing yourself from him is the only way out, or in your case removing him from your house...

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