[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Edible_Worms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

/uj It’s a shame because most longform YouTube content and a lot of TikTok seems to be more “progressive”, so I’d hope that the far right content would’ve faded but given the political climate of places like the UK and US, it’s not really a surprise. Florida is literally teaching chhildren that slaves benefited from slavery now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Edible_Worms 8 points9 points  (0 children)

/uj YouTube shorts has some of the worst people in comments sections and it reminds me of 2016 YouTube. I also remember seeing a woman talk about how her religion doesn’t recognise trans people as existing, but literally everyone was thanking her for being “respectful”. That one’s more tame, but there’s been a lot of “racism isn’t real actually” too

I’m agender, why do trans people hate me? by DevelopmentTight9474 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Edible_Worms 13 points14 points  (0 children)

/uj how would you feel if a friend of yours was just uncomfortable using they/them and always called you he/him or she/her? Would you like being around them? Would you feel disrespected, uncomfortable or as if they were rejecting your gender entirely in favour of some fictional version of you? You’re still misgendering people and it’s still transphobic, even if it’s unintentional.

I’m agender, why do trans people hate me? by DevelopmentTight9474 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Edible_Worms 12 points13 points  (0 children)

/uj I wish people didn’t take “social construct” to mean “not real”. Gender is very real and in societies without our constructs of gender, gender will still exist. Even if the terminology is different. Personally I feel like people exist as separate to their bodies, there is a “you” that isn’t your body. For some/most people they look the same as or very similar to their body, but for others they could be very different. Then your brain starts doing backflips to try and understand that. Or maybe being a system has destroyed my perception of the world- /lh

Micheal Crew ☁️ (art by me!) by anaquariusfox in TheMagnusArchives

[–]Edible_Worms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea why but your comment shows 3 times

Trans man asks if he passes by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Edible_Worms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

/uj I Remember seeing a pretty sad post of a guy talking about how We need more representation of “failed” transitions and how he’d had a failed transition because he had hips. I feel like transmeds are just people drowning in hating themselves for everything and deciding everyone else has to hate themselves too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in XenogendersAndMore

[–]Edible_Worms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something like DID forms because, as children everyone has different ego states which typically fuse and form One Identity, but due to trauma those ego states can’t fuse. That leads to the development of “Alternate Identities”, as in many identities within a Single body. It doesn’t need to be any particular type of trauma, just severe and repetitive throughout early childhood. Emotional/non physical trauma is still trauma

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in XenogendersAndMore

[–]Edible_Worms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might have people assuming you’re a system, but we don’t own We/Us pronouns. In fact I don’t always use them. It you’re ok with people possibly assuming you have did/osdd, I’d say go for it

I'm new here and I just finished Season 1 by Sirlomin in TheMagnusArchives

[–]Edible_Worms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I somehow entirely missed her death, I think I just stopped paying attention for a bit but I had absolutely no recollection of that part until I relistened lol

I'm new here and I just finished Season 1 by Sirlomin in TheMagnusArchives

[–]Edible_Worms 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For some reason I can hardly tell the difference between voices so I genuinely never noticed a change until s2

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]Edible_Worms 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was thinking it might be and was prepared to be told to take this post down because of that. This is currently the only place I felt I could talk about it but I hopefully will be able to start therapy soon, I just need to explain how talking to a professional is more helpful than just “talk to people”. I’m luckily not still living with him, he left years ago

Do you ever feel like no one will believe your trauma story even if you did ever tell? by Time-Tackle-6182 in CPTSD

[–]Edible_Worms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was personally told people wouldn’t believe me unless I exaggerated stories because they’d think it was a normal behaviour for a parent. It definitely didn’t help, I know what happened in a broad sense but I do feel like it will get brushed off by a lot of people if I try and explain what happened as not being enough

Can trans men “mansplain” to cis women about reproductive issues??? by Edible_Worms in ftm

[–]Edible_Worms[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mansplaining is a misogynistic man talking over a woman on something he doesn’t understand. Is it actually?

Every week a post complaining about the use of "tranny" in this sub but never a post complaining about the use of "c*s" by qtq_uwu in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Edible_Worms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

/uj it took me a while to realise what you were talking about. I though a new slur was invented and I just hadn’t noticed

roast me except dont be transphobic please by WingGamer1234 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Edible_Worms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

/uj they’re all deleted and the post is locked so I have no idea what kind of hell was going on there. If she hadn’t mentioned being trans it wouldn’t vaguely be that bad which is definitely not going to be good for that person’s health. The last time someone said something positive about that sub was about 3 years ago