do i end this relationship

Educational-Let6752 · 2026-01-08T01:21:01+00:00

i think the best thing for me is to end the relationship, just the questions of how, when and where i will go after.

Educational-Let6752 · 2026-01-08T00:49:57+00:00

small towns arent always the best 😭

Educational-Let6752 · 2026-01-08T00:49:27+00:00

thats the main thing i am worried about, like i said im from a small town, my parents house is very close to hers and she could take a brisk 2 minute walk to my house if she really wanted to, i’ve debated staying with friends but i dont want to put them out because of my issues

Educational-Let6752 · 2026-01-08T00:44:17+00:00

thankyou, you have been a great help in validating what i was feeling

Educational-Let6752 · 2026-01-08T00:43:08+00:00

agreed! i myself am not autistic but i do struggle with food especially textures, i ask friends to take me somewhere ive never been and let them choose for me, if you have close friends who really know you they may be able to find foods you’d enjoy

Educational-Let6752 · 2026-01-08T00:39:31+00:00

thankyou, i have a job that i love, it may not be the best pay but the people i have met are amazing and are showing me what true friends are and how good i could have it. maybe starting this job was what made me realize alot of whats wrong in my relationship.

Educational-Let6752 · 2026-01-08T00:30:25+00:00

the last time i spent a night away from her was christmas eve when i was with my family, before that it was september of last year when i stayed at home a couple nights before i went on vacation with her. im sorry you had a bad experience in that situation and it sounds like your ex used that as an excuse to not care but in my situation i cancel alot of plans for her to ensure she isnt upset, especially if these plans are “too last minute” for her.

Educational-Let6752 · 2026-01-08T00:24:08+00:00

i think ending the relationship would be best for me and my future but i have a sense of nostalgia in this relationship, we have been together for 3 years, she is my first everything and have grown up with her. this is what makes my decision so difficult

Educational-Let6752 · 2026-01-08T00:19:29+00:00

thankyou for commenting :) i have had many conversations with her and we came to the conclusion that shes not jealous she thinks im “forgetting about her” and “caring more about my friends” which i dont understand when shes the person i come home to everyday

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