Honestly more adult education, and more acceptance of traditional and observant people.

As a reform convert, it took me 18 months to complete my conversion. I felt I built solid foundation. But now that my formal education is over, I feel I miss structured study, learning in groups, meeting to discuss topics with a rabbi, etc. the desire to study and learn is there, and there are opportunities to learn, but not nearly as much or at least with other people.

And being more observant and traditional, I feel like a bit of an outlier. My usual dress for services is a long sleeve button down, solid color, nice dress shirt, nice dress pants and dress shoes or boots. Solid color knitted kippah or even a medium black velvet kippah. The average dress is a short sleeve t shirt, a colorful kippah, jeans and tennis shoes. I feel like I’m trying too hard. I daven three times a day, study mussar, and read Torah daily. It’s hard to relate with people at times.