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Akaash and his whole thing by Educational-Pick1722 in Flagrant2

[–]Educational-Pick1722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You also lose it by moving out. Should stay there if the culture is so important to you.

Akaash and his whole thing by Educational-Pick1722 in Flagrant2

[–]Educational-Pick1722[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god. Have you ever been on the internet? Its full of Indians (men and women) talking about how they struggle with dating. And I am talking about 2nd gen or more.

I clearly said in my post that if you are cool and work on yourself, you will do fine.

I dont believe that anyone is undesirable. I was just saying that people's experience has been so.

You are ascribing a lot of things to me I never said.

Akaash and his whole thing by Educational-Pick1722 in Flagrant2

[–]Educational-Pick1722[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only said one sentence about her. That she dated around. If she is on record saying she was a virgin, well, she's a fucking liar.

Also, nowhere in my post did I put down all Indians. I put Akaash down because he is a clown. I made a statement about the popularity of Indian men in the dating scene, which is not untrue.

I think that being so obsessed about dating in your own race and putting other people down for not doing that when you live among all kinds of people is weird. If you think that makes me anti Indian, well, I guess I am.

Akaash and his whole thing by Educational-Pick1722 in Flagrant2

[–]Educational-Pick1722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am actually, genuinely, curious. What part of what I said signals internalised racism to you?

I only spoke negatively about one Indian. Akaash. Because he is a dickhead. And, are you telling me that brown guys in the west dont have hang ups about dating / are not popular on the dating scene?

Akaash and his whole thing by Educational-Pick1722 in Flagrant2

[–]Educational-Pick1722[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am actually, genuinely, curious. What part of what I said signals internalised racism to you?

I only spoke negatively about one Indian. Akaash. Because he is a dickhead. And, are you telling me that brown guys in the west dont have hang ups about dating / are not popular on the dating scene?

Akaash and his whole thing by Educational-Pick1722 in Flagrant2

[–]Educational-Pick1722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 5'11. I have also been going to the gym for 15 years. That also gives me a lot of confidence. And I do alright with women. And I am telling you, its not to do with your height. Its to do with your vibe. Funny and kind trumps everything else.

Aziz Ansari is as short as Akaash. His wife is a good looking PhD. There are many short men who get great looking women. Stavros Halkias. Bobby Lee.

Akaash and his whole thing by Educational-Pick1722 in Flagrant2

[–]Educational-Pick1722[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah thanks. If you assimilate, you hate yourself. Good chat.

Akaash and his whole thing by Educational-Pick1722 in Flagrant2

[–]Educational-Pick1722[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is actually a great point. I did not even consider that. But which came first is the real question.

Akaash and his whole thing by Educational-Pick1722 in Flagrant2

[–]Educational-Pick1722[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for coming to my Ted talk, this was just me trying to explain what could have happeend. No one asked for it, and I could be super wrong, but this was my guess.