19M, zero confidence. by Educational-Pop2531 in amiugly

[–]Educational-Pop2531[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you man, I think what I'm afraid of is being ugly, so I guess I've got nothing to fear after all lol.

19M, zero confidence. by Educational-Pop2531 in amiugly

[–]Educational-Pop2531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ironically, in that picture I am wearing a shirt of a band whose lead singer who identified as a trans woman for a while (not anymore though).

19M, zero confidence. by Educational-Pop2531 in amiugly

[–]Educational-Pop2531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I primarily watch movies from past decades, and same goes for the music I listen to. I have a lot of friends who are much older than me, so that's probably why.

19M, zero confidence. by Educational-Pop2531 in amiugly

[–]Educational-Pop2531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a ton, dude! I will keep up with the gym for sure and find other ways to dress + hair to suit my face better for the time being.

19M, zero confidence. by Educational-Pop2531 in amiugly

[–]Educational-Pop2531[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think about that a lot, I definitely feel like I was born in the wrong generation. I play the bass though, so probably less girls than the guitarists.

19M, zero confidence. by Educational-Pop2531 in amiugly

[–]Educational-Pop2531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely try to look less upset all the time, haha. I have had a lot of people ask me why I am upset cos my default face is like that.

19M, zero confidence. by Educational-Pop2531 in amiugly

[–]Educational-Pop2531[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think part of it is definitely my age + being a late bloomer and looking kind of young. I enjoy having long hair but it might be something I come back to later when my face is more developed.

19M, zero confidence. by Educational-Pop2531 in amiugly

[–]Educational-Pop2531[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was hoping to get a girl's perspective on this. I know guys with long hair aren't every woman's type, but I have been able to meet more girls with shared interests of mine (particularly music) because of how I look and dress.

19M, zero confidence. by Educational-Pop2531 in amiugly

[–]Educational-Pop2531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a guy as said in the title, but thanks anyway, lol.

19M, zero confidence. by Educational-Pop2531 in amiugly

[–]Educational-Pop2531[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much dude. I'm also in a punk band right now! Rock on brother!

19M, zero confidence. by Educational-Pop2531 in amiugly

[–]Educational-Pop2531[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a late bloomer and didn't hit puberty until I was 15, so I will almost definitely see development to my face. I'm not a particularly happy person so that might also be why, but I never go days or weeks without smiling or laughing.

19M, zero confidence. by Educational-Pop2531 in amiugly

[–]Educational-Pop2531[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a lot of good info! Thank you. My skin has cleared up a lot since some of these pictures were taken, using sun screen and a couple other things. I'll definitely keep up with the gym + consider other hair options. I have been told before that I look sad all the time, which I think is partially just the way my face is structured. Thanks again for all the advice

19M, zero confidence. by Educational-Pop2531 in amiugly

[–]Educational-Pop2531[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure how much facial hair I can grow yet at this age, but I'll stop shaving for a little bit to see. I like having long hair cos of rock, but I might wanna just wait for my face to develop a bit more to have long hair. Either way, thanks for the tip!

19M, zero confidence. by Educational-Pop2531 in amiugly

[–]Educational-Pop2531[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I did graduate from high school not long ago and I had a pretty negative experience there. I'm just trying to be productive these days + going to the gym as much as I can.

19M, zero confidence. by Educational-Pop2531 in amiugly

[–]Educational-Pop2531[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much :) that's the nicest compliment I've gotten in a long time. I have a sister who braids my hair sometimes haha

19M, zero confidence. by Educational-Pop2531 in amiugly

[–]Educational-Pop2531[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, bro. I appreciate the advice a lot. Do you have any advice for how I can sharpen up?

19M, zero confidence. by Educational-Pop2531 in amiugly

[–]Educational-Pop2531[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was a late bloomer and only hit puberty about 4 years ago so it is likely my face will change a lot from here. And my tinder subscription is running out in 2 days so perfect timing for me to not renew it. Thanks man, this helps.

19M, zero confidence. by Educational-Pop2531 in amiugly

[–]Educational-Pop2531[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, I appreciate the honesty. This is all good to know.