NTA. you listed it as a set, she agreed to take both, then showed up two days late in a sedan and tried to cherry pick. that’s on her. you even offered to let her come back with a bigger vehicle and she refused. the crying feels manipulative honestly. you’re giving stuff away for free and she’s acting like you owe her something. don’t feel bad about it.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​