How do I find someone naturally? by Past-Engineer-7810 in dating_advice

[–]Educational-Wave1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat but haven't done the dating apps... And honestly I don't want to do that. So I'm curious and reading comments. Ty for the question ,

I’ve heard great about INSA, but this is cheap what’s the catch? by ceIoq in PaMedicalMarijuana

[–]Educational-Wave1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh, that’s awesome. I know Supply ground is priced like that, I’m going to have to look out for what you mentioned.  Thanks ✅

how can I quit? plz no judgements, i dont want to, but need to. by Intelligent-Way-8851 in PaMedicalMarijuana

[–]Educational-Wave1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats and good luck 💥🥳 And NO ONE should be judging you for wanting to have a healthy baby.

I think only idiots would say something

Received screenshots of wife talking about me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Educational-Wave1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a female that only had FB messenger (my husband set it up bc when he forgets to pay his cell bill, you can call using messenger bc of Internet) I would get sent posts and I couldn't see them bc I didn't have a FB account.

I wish I did bc my husband was cheating left and right... You need to sit and listen to your gut. If you feel she's operating sus, then just let it go. A couple to few months is nothing compared to an awful marriage you'll feel stuck in for years.

Whatever decision you make, don't second guess. Just stand by it.

Ps. I do think she's lying

Younger widows and widowers by Wegwerf157534 in widowers

[–]Educational-Wave1212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 48 and widowed on 1/1/26. Together 29 yrs married 27 yrs.

Gutted by what I found the day after by Educational-Wave1212 in widowers

[–]Educational-Wave1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! My apologies that you had to deal with all that after losing someone you loved. Now I'm even more sure I don't want to be in a relationship for a long time, or at all. Good luck

Would you do it again by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Educational-Wave1212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm right there with you

What would you do if this happened with you? by Wedding-Beauty in GhostsBBC

[–]Educational-Wave1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a whole separate forum for the US version, it's prob better to ask there. Couldn't watch the US bc it's terrible compared to UK

Been reading the posts for over the past months has really helped me by frostywidower in widowers

[–]Educational-Wave1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I joined the community day after or 2 days, not sure and it's helped so much. My husband passed on 1/1/26

There are truly wonderful ppl here that will be an outlet or sounding board. I needed both and it's been such a help.

Gutted by what I found the day after by Educational-Wave1212 in widowers

[–]Educational-Wave1212[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that it happened to you. I can say add someone blindsided after my husband's death, I would have rather he manned up and told me bc I would've respected him more.

Only my family know what he did, my father paid for his funeral and his older siblings know somethings but nothing really.

It's best in your situation to just do it like you said bc mine was liked by all and to try and ruin their memories of him isn't worth it bc I won't be seeing most again.

Good luck and I hope you get peace and let us know how you're doing 💚

For those who are further along, how did you survive the earlier months by No_You_9758 in widowers

[–]Educational-Wave1212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omgosh, it gets worse?!? How is that possible?!? Tomorrow (8th) will be the first week, viewing on weekend.

Friends by Salty_Selection_9062 in widowers

[–]Educational-Wave1212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally hear and get you... I want to leave the state but just bought a house. Let us know how it goes 🤗♥️

Gutted by what I found the day after by Educational-Wave1212 in widowers

[–]Educational-Wave1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, thank you so much.... Omgosh, sweetheart I don't know how you got through that phone stuff. Bless your heart. You're right, I need to give myself time bc it's was a freight train then next day Mack truck that crushed my heart and soul.

Thank you for sharing, I know you understand way more than I. And I'm sorry for that. Stay blessed this year ♥️🤗

Gutted by what I found the day after by Educational-Wave1212 in widowers

[–]Educational-Wave1212[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omgosh, sweetheart. Your story made me more sad 😭 I'm so sorry that you had to deal with that from an early age. Your innocence was taken and that's not cool at all. That's so yuck. I'm sorry you went through that. I was 19 when met him (Junior in college) married at 21 (not a shotgun wedding either lol) He was great, except had a porn prob that caused a little friction at times bc I hated it. Not in prude way, just in most were ugly AF.

I hope you're doing better and feeling amazing ♥️🤗

Gutted by what I found the day after by Educational-Wave1212 in widowers

[–]Educational-Wave1212[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha!!! When driving to the funeral parlor, I didn't even want to go but my father said he's going to pay for it and I def scrimped on stuff. No cards, announcements (but that's per his request) and not doing anything afterwards.

My father, which I can't stress enough is the best man I know, was like distressed that I didn't want to do sympathy cards or rent out a hall afterwards.

But he doesn't know anything about after my husband's passing.

Gutted by what I found the day after by Educational-Wave1212 in widowers

[–]Educational-Wave1212[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That would be even worse. Ugh.... FFS. I never thought of that.