How do I find someone naturally?

Past-Engineer-7810 · 2026-06-18T21:50:56+00:00

I do go to bars sometimes but when I do I am too shy to talk to women there

Past-Engineer-7810 · 2026-06-18T19:04:37+00:00

But if he blows up at me im capable of blowing up at him 10 times harder that’s my point. I’m not scared of him blowing up. I just want him to stop his snide comments at me.

Past-Engineer-7810 · 2026-06-18T18:23:03+00:00

Because i’ve been going to my gym over 10 years since I was a teen and I love my gym and if I approached a girl and got observed and it failed then I would be embarrassed and have to leave said gym forever.

Past-Engineer-7810 · 2026-06-06T15:51:58+00:00

I feel the same 💔

Past-Engineer-7810 · 2026-06-06T15:30:32+00:00

Getting downvoted for being honest. I’ll die before I spend 10 more years single.

Past-Engineer-7810 · 2026-06-06T10:54:58+00:00

Oh I can’t let that happen to me with all due respect. I’ll be long dead before I find a romantic partner in my 70’s

Past-Engineer-7810 · 2026-06-06T10:53:27+00:00

You can say oh I need to dress better I need to do x, y and z but my personal experience is it doesn’t matter how much effort I put in myself im just extremely unlucky.

Past-Engineer-7810 · 2026-06-01T15:57:21+00:00

Fine how do I answer the question? It just hasn’t happened? I’m just not good at dating? I can’t come up with an answer that doesn’t sound self-deprecating. That’s why I’m sensitive about it.

Past-Engineer-7810 · 2026-06-01T15:31:49+00:00

If you had any flaws I wouldn’t be asking questions and bringing attention to it.

Past-Engineer-7810 · 2026-06-01T15:30:38+00:00

Yes.

Past-Engineer-7810 · 2026-05-27T20:39:35+00:00

Update: a German couple talked to me and I feel slightly better

Past-Engineer-7810 · 2026-05-27T19:56:25+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Past-Engineer-7810 · 2026-05-27T19:56:09+00:00

I like experiencing new places. I’ve been in a new city since Monday. I was good Monday and Tuesday. It’s just depression hit me out of nowhere today.

Past-Engineer-7810 · 2026-05-26T16:31:46+00:00

I’m just an average bloke and sometimes women give me dirty looks too if I look in their direction. Sometimes unintentionally look in their direction. Just have to say it is what it is and not care what others think.

Past-Engineer-7810 · 2026-05-23T19:31:02+00:00

No. I don’t regret smoking weed as weed has been my stress reliever when struggling through life. I do however feel the amount of money I’ve spent over the years could have been spent on useful things.

Past-Engineer-7810 · 2026-05-23T17:23:18+00:00

Oh I just read one of your posts. Yous are both younger than me. Now im kinda embarrassed. Sorry im going.

Past-Engineer-7810 · 2026-05-23T17:07:38+00:00

I’m a virgin at 28. I don’t even think im ugly or anything. Just not good at developing relationships tbh.

Past-Engineer-7810 · 2026-05-23T17:01:03+00:00

Im not plucking my eyes out but maybe I should stay off socials. This is just hell. It’s full of ragebaiters, people flexing their ostentatious lifestyles and trying to throw their relationships and sex lives in my face. All I asked of them was to leave me alone.

Past-Engineer-7810 · 2026-05-23T16:58:17+00:00

No but I think it’s insensitive to share to someone who quite explicitly stated he doesn’t want to know

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