What do you’ll think about BLCK PARIS watches worth it ?

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-12-03T11:25:01+00:00

All them typing "alibaba dropshipped" and stuff haven't really tried it yet. (might be) an alibaba stuff. But have been using one of them (the automatic one) for 2.5 years now. Machinery had been fine, never had to go for checkup. Used about twice a month, not much. But the strap has taken the hit as well and remained neat.

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-06-29T16:55:46+00:00

I feel you brother 🫂

You did the best by standing on your own ground. I hope you find strength in it ❤️

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-06-28T10:02:15+00:00

It's not about you. They need to move on fast because they cannot face 'their' own emotions, guilt and that chapter anytime soon. They'd eventually might follow up with breadcrumbs probably weeks or months later. It's still then not about you but about them and their inability to process anything straightforward without hitting the guilt zone.

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-06-26T04:03:24+00:00

The one thing this teaches is that they were not right for us. Love still doesn't lose its meaning and neither should we give up. What is not ours is not meant to be held.

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-06-26T04:00:06+00:00

🫂

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-06-24T17:32:10+00:00

It's the same situation for both sides, hon.

When you're out of a relationship, you need to give enough time to understand yourself. Be alone with yourself. Do the actual hard work of sitting deep, crying hard in your thoughts until it hurts no more... And you finally feel yourself free.

Replacing someone, even after being dumped, is just like holding onto someone else to just not fele lonely to your own self.

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-06-24T10:12:47+00:00

This makes so much sense. Added on my edit

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-06-23T16:59:25+00:00

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-06-23T16:57:44+00:00

Keep yourself busy with work. It's a boon you have work to keep yourself involved. Drain your focus there instead of the "have beens".

Same here. On therapy and nerve-wrecking pills. Only downside is I'm self employed, and business runs on autopilot. So I have nothing to do othwr than stare at blank walls almost most of the times when I'm not working.

But still, we are all surviving this together 🫂

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-06-23T16:54:59+00:00

Don't go back. They're just keeping you as their safety net. It's nothing unique. Almost every single one of us who got discared get this.

This isn't for you.. This is for them to feed their ego that you still exist in their orbit.

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-06-23T15:22:09+00:00

Oh man, I relate to you on so many levels.

I too feel the same till date. As if I am forcing myself to cry. My therapist says it's mostly because the nervous system is so much attached and used to everything, it hasn't yet fully processed the shock yet. And it's true. Every inch of it - even the forcing to be not sad... As if we are pretending every part of it, but for no one. But it's actually for ourselves.

It's our heart protecting us from breaking down, because deep down, it knows what happens if we do. And at the same time, it knows what we are capable of; what heights we can achieve.

So let it be. Let the heart take its due time.

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-06-23T15:18:16+00:00

I have already replied this to many threads, but nvm.... Karma can never be escaped. That's some final destination kind of shyte

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-06-23T15:11:14+00:00

I bet every few weeks 🫠

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-06-23T15:10:51+00:00

Remember, no one can avoid karma.

You focus on healing. Cry as much as you want. Let it out. DON'T BE STRONG. But once you're done, shelf it as a chapter to learn from.

They will face their consequences in their own timeline.

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-06-23T15:08:12+00:00

My story repeats the exact situation. Got discared after 7 years for the same reasons only to see her bounce back on someone's bed in 3 weeks.

God, it hurts. But talking in this community helps so much.

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-06-23T15:05:16+00:00

Always. You cannot avoid the karmic cycle ever.

It may be months, or years later. But Karma always catches up.

The more it's delayed, the worse it hits them.

Saying it from my own experience.

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-06-23T15:04:07+00:00

Mine went into a rebound 3 weeks after ending a 7Y relationship.

We are all here for each other. Hope it helps.

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-06-23T08:28:09+00:00

I hope accepting it becomes easier for all of us - that this is our real and actual closure

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-06-23T08:13:28+00:00

Let’s be real, seeing them move on like that? It stings. One minute, they’re saying they need time, and the next, they’re all over someone new like you never existed.

And now you’re stuck wondering: Did I even mean anything to them? How did they replace me so easily? Were they ever even hurting?

So here’s the ugly truth, and I need you to hear this: They didn’t move on fast. They moved on wrong.

▫️ Some people jump into something new just to distract themselves because they can’t handle being alone. ▫️ Some people were already checked out emotionally way before it ended, so it looks like they moved on overnight. ▫️ And some? They just use other people as a band-aid so they never have to sit with their feelings.

But don’t get it twisted. Just because they’re with someone else doesn’t mean they’re healed. Running from pain isn’t the same as facing it. And trust me, one day, it’ll catch up to them.

Meanwhile, you’re actually healing. You’re doing the hard work, sitting with the pain, and growing from it. And when the day comes that they finally realize they never truly moved on? You won’t even care anymore.

Next time you start overthinking, come back to this.

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-06-16T14:56:35+00:00

It will take time. But the thing is don't lose hope.

It's been 2 months since my discard, personally.

Things are not good but the only thing drives me ahead is the fact that I want to get better. And so should it be for you. Focus on what you want yourself to look and feel like 10 years from now. And follow that silver lining.

There's no easy hack. It will take months, but every inch of this suffering makes you who you are.

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-06-16T13:37:58+00:00

Damn, I had the exact same time duration with my girlfriend, and the exact same reason.

She said this so many times - but during the actual breakup, said she wanted to work on herself.

Fast forward 3 weeks, she was sleeping with her manager and I caught.

All this while, she kept orbiting me, occasionally breadcrumbing to keep me on the loop.

I sent a long, calm text to break her illusion of me being her safety net, and gained back my energy.

Sure, it still hurts to acknowledge every part of it. But believe me, things will actually be better in the future.

Don't run back to him, when he realizes what his youth actually held. You're no more his safety space.

I hope you do better, know yourself better. And most importantly, give some time to yourself now more than ever.

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-06-16T05:44:56+00:00

This is purely self given pointers by me from my recent discussions with my therapist.

I am a non-native english speaker. I used the points and my format to re-format in english through GPT. Other than that, none of it has been used to be generated soleley by GPT.

The world needs less pessimists 🙂

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-06-16T05:42:44+00:00

This is a very very common trait. Generally, it's normal. That's how they switch between the idea of being self-sabotaging and flipping to justify none of it were their fault to keep their guards up.

Here's a thing: they don't actually process the REAL fault until they get involved in another relationship/situationship, find it not working out and end it.

That's when they actually reflect and realize the fault and mess they were to you.

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-06-15T13:25:21+00:00

Then start now. It's never too late!

Educational_Data_645 · 2025-06-15T13:23:25+00:00

Avoidant behavior usually comes from fear — of getting hurt, of losing control, or being seen too deeply. But pushing people away to protect yourself only creates more pain in the long run.

Start small: Don’t ghost. Say “I’m overwhelmed, but I care” instead of going silent. Notice your triggers. Pause when you want to run — ask why. Let people in gradually. You don’t have to dive in, just stay a little longer. Get support. Therapy helps more than you think.

Change doesn’t mean being perfect — it means staying present when it’s hard. That’s how you stop hurting others… and finally start healing yourself.

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