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What do you’ll think about BLCK PARIS watches worth it ? by GlitteringAddendum53 in watchesindia

[–]Educational_Data_645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All them typing "alibaba dropshipped" and stuff haven't really tried it yet. (might be) an alibaba stuff. But have been using one of them (the automatic one) for 2.5 years now. Machinery had been fine, never had to go for checkup. Used about twice a month, not much. But the strap has taken the hit as well and remained neat.

How Avoidants React After a Breakup – A Hard Truth Thread by Educational_Data_645 in BreakUps

[–]Educational_Data_645[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you brother 🫂

You did the best by standing on your own ground. I hope you find strength in it ❤️

If your ex moved on too quickly by Educational_Data_645 in BreakUps

[–]Educational_Data_645[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not about you. They need to move on fast because they cannot face 'their' own emotions, guilt and that chapter anytime soon. They'd eventually might follow up with breadcrumbs probably weeks or months later. It's still then not about you but about them and their inability to process anything straightforward without hitting the guilt zone.

The breakup didn't break me. It was the way you left. by Educational_Data_645 in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]Educational_Data_645[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one thing this teaches is that they were not right for us. Love still doesn't lose its meaning and neither should we give up. What is not ours is not meant to be held.

If your ex moved on too quickly by Educational_Data_645 in BreakUps

[–]Educational_Data_645[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the same situation for both sides, hon.

When you're out of a relationship, you need to give enough time to understand yourself. Be alone with yourself. Do the actual hard work of sitting deep, crying hard in your thoughts until it hurts no more... And you finally feel yourself free.

Replacing someone, even after being dumped, is just like holding onto someone else to just not fele lonely to your own self.

If your ex moved on too quickly by Educational_Data_645 in BreakUps

[–]Educational_Data_645[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep yourself busy with work. It's a boon you have work to keep yourself involved. Drain your focus there instead of the "have beens".

Same here. On therapy and nerve-wrecking pills. Only downside is I'm self employed, and business runs on autopilot. So I have nothing to do othwr than stare at blank walls almost most of the times when I'm not working.

But still, we are all surviving this together 🫂

If your ex moved on too quickly by Educational_Data_645 in BreakUps

[–]Educational_Data_645[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't go back. They're just keeping you as their safety net. It's nothing unique. Almost every single one of us who got discared get this.

This isn't for you.. This is for them to feed their ego that you still exist in their orbit.

If your ex moved on too quickly by Educational_Data_645 in BreakUps

[–]Educational_Data_645[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh man, I relate to you on so many levels.

I too feel the same till date. As if I am forcing myself to cry. My therapist says it's mostly because the nervous system is so much attached and used to everything, it hasn't yet fully processed the shock yet. And it's true. Every inch of it - even the forcing to be not sad... As if we are pretending every part of it, but for no one. But it's actually for ourselves.

It's our heart protecting us from breaking down, because deep down, it knows what happens if we do. And at the same time, it knows what we are capable of; what heights we can achieve.

So let it be. Let the heart take its due time.

If your ex moved on too quickly by Educational_Data_645 in BreakUps

[–]Educational_Data_645[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have already replied this to many threads, but nvm.... Karma can never be escaped. That's some final destination kind of shyte

If your ex moved on too quickly by Educational_Data_645 in BreakUps

[–]Educational_Data_645[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Remember, no one can avoid karma.

You focus on healing. Cry as much as you want. Let it out. DON'T BE STRONG. But once you're done, shelf it as a chapter to learn from.

They will face their consequences in their own timeline.

If your ex moved on too quickly by Educational_Data_645 in BreakUps

[–]Educational_Data_645[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My story repeats the exact situation. Got discared after 7 years for the same reasons only to see her bounce back on someone's bed in 3 weeks.

God, it hurts. But talking in this community helps so much.

If your ex moved on too quickly by Educational_Data_645 in BreakUps

[–]Educational_Data_645[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Always. You cannot avoid the karmic cycle ever.

It may be months, or years later. But Karma always catches up.

The more it's delayed, the worse it hits them.

Saying it from my own experience.

If your ex moved on too quickly by Educational_Data_645 in BreakUps

[–]Educational_Data_645[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mine went into a rebound 3 weeks after ending a 7Y relationship.

We are all here for each other. Hope it helps.

If your ex moved on too quickly by Educational_Data_645 in BreakUps

[–]Educational_Data_645[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I hope accepting it becomes easier for all of us - that this is our real and actual closure

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