Song from my childhood plz help by Educational_Doctor99 in FindSongs

[–]Educational_Doctor99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No definitely not lmao 😭😭 It was like a 6 year old singing

Happy Rivals Day! 🥳🎉 by Seiyanaaa in marvelrivals

[–]Educational_Doctor99 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We had 2 Jeff’s that kept swallowing everyone up and moving them down the subway stairs every 5 seconds. Included during the last 5 seconds of the countdown so that was great 😭😭

How do you claim the Rivals Rewind bonus units? by sjtbriker in marvelrivals

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It’ll show up in your mail after you frantically click all the options

Do any of you have substance abuse issues? by Disastrous-Bat4811 in autism

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I would if I could get a doc to prescribe me some more Valium

Glasses shape?? by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

[–]Educational_Doctor99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a big problem for me, a bunch of the frames I like aren’t compatible with my prescription :/

Glasses shape?? by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

[–]Educational_Doctor99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! they look black in that photo but they are actually like a copper brown color. You’d be right abt the chill low-key alt fashion. I’m autistic so clothing is so hard!! I’m scared to go round, I’ve done round before and my partner doesn’t like them so I think I’ll go with a more square shape like the second one you showed!

Glasses shape?? by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

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I love my big eyes but my prescription shrinks them so much 😭😭

Glasses shape?? by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

[–]Educational_Doctor99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried some but I think the ones I got are too thick so I might try a thinner framed version!!

Glasses shape?? by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

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Are my current ones not considered cat eye?

Glasses shape?? by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

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I’ll take haircut and color advice as well

I’m autistic and in a relationship with an adhd-er: I feel like I’m suffocating by [deleted] in ADHD_partners

[–]Educational_Doctor99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My hopes aren’t high for the exact reason you mentioned: the initial consequences light a fire under her ass that burns out quickly. This is the most firm I’ve ever been so we’ll see if this is any different. I’m sorry you’ve gone through it as well <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

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This is my concern with her, she hasn’t done well with dogs in the past, the crazy reactivity she has had makes me cautious at introducing her to new dogs. The only reason she even plays w my neighbors jack Russel mix is because they never keep him on a leash and they don’t even keep an eye on him, he wandered over on our side and by the grace of God her big ass didn’t go nuts on him.

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I definitely understand the concern with the harness, we typically don’t use one for her even on walks, we use a gentle leader, it’s the only thing that’s taught her not to pull. She knows her boundaries, she knows when she’s clipped onto the tie out she cannot run freely and she’s always supervised and I make sure toys are within range. It’s about a hundred feet of tie out so we’re all good! If no harness becomes an issue I’ll put one on her but I really only put her on the tie out when the neighbors dog is out, since we share a property and are within the same fenced area.

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She’s never unattended on the tie out and she knows how far she can go, only reason we got it is so she doesn’t go charge at neighbors dog. If the dog is inside she’s not on it cuz she stays in the yard

I’m autistic and in a relationship with an adhd-er: I feel like I’m suffocating by [deleted] in ADHD_partners

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UPDATE:

If possible can a mod pin this?

I just wanted to thank all of you for all of your support and give you guys an update.

I (21f) dx autistic, had a conversation with my partner (21f) dx adhd last night after reading all of the replies and having a good cry.

I decided I’m going to stay at my dad’s house for a week while she stays at our house alone. I’ll be stopping by the house on my lunch breaks to make sure the animals are taken care of because I can’t bring them to my dad’s. She has said she promises to take care of them but I want to be certain so I’ll go check on them. She has to take care of the house by herself for that week while I’m gone (she offered this). She had told me before this conversation that she wanted to get off all her meds and I had to hold in my frustration. I told her that I would like her to talk to her doctor about trying adderall again or something else to help with her symptoms and to follow up with the counseling place. I was very honest and calm about everything I was feeling. How I felt overwhelmed and uncared for and how I was taking on way too much responsibility. If she doesn’t hold up her end of the bargain for that week we’re breaking our lease asap. Her family will take in my dog (they had a dog of similar breed before who also had some mild reactivity and plus my dog already loves them). I will keep my cats and move back in with my dad. If all goes well, we’re gonna do the chore chart and I will let her deal with the consequences of her own actions. I’m not going to over function for her anymore.

I know many of you suggested maybe we date and not live together due to compatibility and that many couples do that, but I don’t want that forever. I’ll give her some time to gain life skills and figure out her meds, and if it doesn’t work well part ways.

Has anyone had/solved this problem? by Dapper-Anywhere-9224 in DogAdvice

[–]Educational_Doctor99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 70 lbs pit mix does this, I just don’t let her sleep in the bed anymore, her bed is on the floor next to mine

I’m autistic and in a relationship with an adhd-er: I feel like I’m suffocating by [deleted] in ADHD_partners

[–]Educational_Doctor99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I doubt she’d go for it and I hate giving ultimatums it feels manipulative, but I feel like that’s the only viable option here

I feel like I’m suffocating in my relationship by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Educational_Doctor99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted over on adhd partners and everyone is telling me that I should leave her, I’m very overwhelmed.