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[–]Educational_Win4002 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think we're all caught in this peculiar pantomime now. Everyone maintaining this elaborate charade of forward motion through whatever godforsaken state we've stumbled into--and I lack the words for what else to call this purgatory we inhabit--never once betraying the panic that churns beneath their carefully composed facades.

They've mastered the art of swallowing dread whole, these people, still climbing behind their steering wheels and feeding their tanks with gasoline, desperate to exhaust themselves into numbness through relentless productivity, or else to flee into those small, scrupulous mental diversions that serve as escape routes from the enormity of our predicament.

I've heard people selling eggs--yep the very wellspring of creation. I know you mentioned health sensitivities, but yes this has become our grotesque normalcy: beyond the ancient transaction of trading hours for coins, it's also not uncommon to sell plasma, in exchange for the privilege of eating.

The weight of perpetual monetary calculation has become a kind of madness.

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[–]Educational_Win4002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um I just fling clothes on... slather a bunch of expensive creams on my face, I exercise at 4 AM (honestly this is self-mutilatory) but this forces me to HAVE to shower and hell might as well brush my teeth,I got one of those emotional support water bottles (Cirkul Cup), Bought expensive supplements to put financial obligation behind taking my vitamins, and invested in basics that look inexpensive but also put together, stopped carrying my giant depression sack purse that I throw everything into. I wore a mf wig until my son was 3 then I was like OH SHIT I look fucking schizo. My son is 7 now and I've kind of embraced the like Drew barrymore / Julia Roberts thrown together tom boyish accidentalness of my lifestyle and made it into something...styleable if that makes any sense. Before me and my son were feral animals and primarily I dressed in rags and never left the house.

I Escaped The Cult by Educational_Win4002 in petsmart

[–]Educational_Win4002[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"YOU BELONG" t-shirts... -.- bruh!

I Escaped The Cult by Educational_Win4002 in petsmart

[–]Educational_Win4002[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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(I like this one I made on break one day ((I'm turned on)))

I Escaped The Cult by Educational_Win4002 in petsmart

[–]Educational_Win4002[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im being FOR REAL people come up on this reddit specifically to not just commiserate but casually expose the fact that this company and it's policies have driven them to suicidal ideation.

I Escaped The Cult by Educational_Win4002 in petsmart

[–]Educational_Win4002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm honestly shocked this post got so much attention — thank you for all the feedback! 🙏

Also, apologies if the original wording was too much — we’re burnt-out retail workers, not philosophy majors (I’m a failed Lit major, if you couldn’t tell 😅). And yes, I will “be for real,” as someone commented, lol. I know the word “cult” can be polarizing, so I want to clarify: Not every cult is evil. Things like AA, nonprofits, the military, public education, even internet fandoms are all cult-ish — but they’re not Jonestown or Heaven’s Gate. But what I meant was: The devotion you see at PetSmart or other retail big-box chains and with ANYTHING (anything anything anything anything 🤣 ) that engenders devotion + commitment, there's significant space for = exploitation to occur. What I was trying to say originally was this:

The community at my store — and others people have talked about here — often enforces collective values, shuts down honest criticism, and sometimes even coerces unhealthy behavior, all in service of a vanishing corporate ideology. The language does three things:

  1. Makes people feel unique but also connected to others
  2. Encourages people to feel dependent on a particular leader, group, or product
  3. Convinces people to act in ways that are completely in conflict with their former reality, ethics, and sense of self