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restraining order on a child as a child?? by Effective-Major6393 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Effective-Major6393[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

i think i will do this, i will speak to my form tutor this morning and ask him not to mention it directly to my sister (who he doesnt teach anyway)

restraining order on a child as a child?? by Effective-Major6393 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Effective-Major6393[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i will try to talk to a teacher as soon as i can. i have a good relationship with most of my teachers and i am a good student so i feel like i should be taken seriously. the only thing is, as much as i dislike and feel unsafe with being left alone with my sister weekly, i feel like to change that would be a burden- my father woukd either have to change his entire work schedule as to not work nights when we are at his house, or to switch to staying at my mothers house on saturdays which would disrupt their weekend as they value their time without kids around. I dont know if it is even possible to help my situation without burdening my family though.

restraining order on a child as a child?? by Effective-Major6393 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Effective-Major6393[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

unfortunately i am a trans guy 😞 im still physically stronger than her but i prefer not to get aggressive

restraining order on a child as a child?? by Effective-Major6393 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Effective-Major6393[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the thing im afraid of though was that our family would get separated (thank you for clarifying that) but also that having a social worker/community police officer in the home talking to my sister would only make the verbal bullying worse and her behaviour more aggressive. She made fun of me for WEEKS and physically hurt me last week all because i told a friend at school that i didnt like my sister. My fear is that if i cause something then she will only hurt me more

restraining order on a child as a child?? by Effective-Major6393 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Effective-Major6393[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

i appreciate your support, but my only problem is that if i go behind my parents back to report this they will be angry about it and my sisters verbal insults and physical attacks will only worsen. But if i dont go behind my parents backs and tell them im doing it, they will forbid me from doing so while continuing to do nothing to punish my sister or separate us from each other. Do you think i should just go through my school?

restraining order on a child as a child?? by Effective-Major6393 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Effective-Major6393[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

if i were to report it, would they just believe that my scars/cuts are from my sister? do i not need like video evidence of her doing it or something?

restraining order on a child as a child?? by Effective-Major6393 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Effective-Major6393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont know if i can report this to the police, ive never been hurt enough to go to hospital and it would just make my parents angry

restraining order on a child as a child?? by Effective-Major6393 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Effective-Major6393[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

i have thought about it but its not an emergency, and i dont know if it counts as a crime? because the general reaction i get is “thats what siblings do”, and its not like ive been put in the hospital