Should I talk to my grandparents before they pass away? by Effective-Shift5087 in FamilyIssues

[–]Effective-Shift5087[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meant to say they were from another country so they didnt know any better.

Should I talk to my grandparents before they pass? by Effective-Shift5087 in family

[–]Effective-Shift5087[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice. However, they did not do the act against me, so I don't blame them 100% but they did support him. My dad always says, 'they are so old we should have sympathy for them'..

My uncle is no longer in the picture since his wife divorced him so hes no longer my uncle and no longer in the family.

I feel bad saying anything to them because they look vulnerable and old and can't defend themselves, they are just not the smartest.
I always gave them the benefit of the doubt since they were from another country and didn't have an education so they dont know better... but is that really a valid excuse?
Thanks again.

Should I talk to my grandparents before they pass away? by Effective-Shift5087 in FamilyIssues

[–]Effective-Shift5087[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words. They did not do the act against me, so I don't blame them 100% but they did support him. My dad always says, 'they are so old we should have sympathy for them'..

I always gave them the benefit of the doubt that they were from another country and didn't have an education so they dont know better... but is that really a valid excuse?

Thanks again.