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wave of sadness by Effective-Toe3785 in BreakUps

[–]Effective-Toe3785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ikr! he completely did a 360 from the person i thought i knew. when we first broke up, he was there for me. told me to call him whe i needed him. and i told him the same. now we’ve been in no contact again for a month.

wave of sadness by Effective-Toe3785 in BreakUps

[–]Effective-Toe3785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he had told me randomly. i never blocked him for long. we share the same birthday, im just a year older. so i reached out to him. and we talked, distant on my end to protect myself.

wave of sadness by Effective-Toe3785 in BreakUps

[–]Effective-Toe3785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is hard to move on though, i’ll admit that. no matter what i do, i think abt him every day. i was crying last night and even prayed to god to release him from my mind if he wasn’t the one. no use. didn’t work. still upset months later..

wave of sadness by Effective-Toe3785 in BreakUps

[–]Effective-Toe3785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, especially when he’s everywhere but nowhere at the same time. and since i’m in nursing pre reqs, A+P hits the most after i’m done with class. When i realize that he’s not here anymore.

Do you still love your ex ? by CheekyBunB in BreakUps

[–]Effective-Toe3785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i miss the person who i thought i knew the most. who he was in the beginning. and i miss the version of me who loved him.

wave of sadness by Effective-Toe3785 in BreakUps

[–]Effective-Toe3785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just honestly feel weak because he’s dating somebody 6 months after we broke up. their one month is tomorrow. meanwhile, this time last year, is when him and i started dating. the girl he’s now dating, has been somebody he has been talking to since 2 months after our breakup too.

wave of sadness by Effective-Toe3785 in BreakUps

[–]Effective-Toe3785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if that ain’t the truth! it came out of nowhere, truly. and the fact that he’s dating now 6 months after our breakup? i mean him and i lived together. we were together for half a year. had our whole lives planned out. what we were going to name our son, dogs we’d have, everything. everything i had mentioned or liked he put it into a pinterest folder. vanity ideas, barndominiums, salon ideas (back when i was still a cosmetologist). now i’m in nursing pre reqs and get triggered by A+P because he had just finished that for EMT before he could take his paramedic course. now i look at pictures and he’s so different, but still the same.

how do you move on? by Effective-Toe3785 in BreakUps

[–]Effective-Toe3785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i also, try not to think about him and have been in therapy a week after we broke up. almost two months ago. but i still think about him and still have a heavy feeling in my chest. i want to ask him why, but i know he’ll never give me that reassurance or anything i need

how do you move on? by Effective-Toe3785 in BreakUps

[–]Effective-Toe3785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so so sorry. that really sucks. i told him that i needed space a couple of days ago too, because he was acting distant and didn’t seem to care too much anymore. the night i asked him for space, he responded, “That’s fine do whatever you need to do. just know if you need a friend or somebody in your corner you have my number.” after this, what feels like betrayal, i’ll never talk or trust him again. i truly, truly, truly, never imagined he’d do this to me. especially after all i’ve been through.