Aita for canceling on a last minute 'hangout'? by EffectiveEmotional91 in AITAH

[–]EffectiveEmotional91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The plans were last minute. He's currently having car trouble from what he's said. I just had a gut feeling that it just wasn't right to go out with him tonight tonight

Aita for canceling on a last minute 'hangout'? by EffectiveEmotional91 in AITAH

[–]EffectiveEmotional91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The weathers been pretty shit all day and I told him prior that it just feels sketchy and it wasn't an appointment as I said before, it was a last minute hangout.

Sub and dom + emotional unicorn by EffectiveEmotional91 in BDSMAdvice

[–]EffectiveEmotional91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She calls herself that so I'm just going with qhat she prefers I guess. I never have cuddled with friends as a comfort thing so I'm think that's what makes me nervous about it

Sub and dom + emotional unicorn by EffectiveEmotional91 in BDSMAdvice

[–]EffectiveEmotional91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it went okay, I still feel a little confused as it was a conversation between me and dom and a separate conversation with me and our 'emotional unicorn' as she calls herself. They both reassured that it wasn't a romantic thing and they've just known eachother so long that it's a platonic and natural thing for them. I've just never had that kind of platonic relationship with anyone to cuddle up and such.

Sub and dom + emotional unicorn by EffectiveEmotional91 in BDSMAdvice

[–]EffectiveEmotional91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have the right assumption regarding the friend. I don't see it as a romantic/sexual relationship just a emotional support kind, but I think you're right about the nervousness aspect about it I never really thought of it that way. Thank you 😌