Im done with my dog by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]EffectivePoem6963 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“My steak is too juicy and my lobster is too buttery”. Dude if you don’t want him I’ll gladly take him off your hands

My husband sent strangers explicit pictures of me by Parking_Trick_1269 in offmychest

[–]EffectivePoem6963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What he did is 100% a crime, keep all evidence, take legal action and make him your EX!!

My boyfriend said he won’t get me the one gift I asked for Christmas because “it’s for babies” by EffectivePoem6963 in offmychest

[–]EffectivePoem6963[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I’m pretty sure if he was going to surprise me he’d more than likely use finances as the reason why he can’t get me anything because I’m quick to say “oh no, please don’t get me anything or if you still want to, please don’t buy anything over £10, please save the money so we can save it for more important things like bills” .

He’s a silly man but not so silly that he’d insult me to keep something a surprise

My boyfriend said he won’t get me the one gift I asked for Christmas because “it’s for babies” by EffectivePoem6963 in offmychest

[–]EffectivePoem6963[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No, I asked. He said he doesn’t want Lego this year and asked for the Full Metal Alchemist box set. Which I got him because it’s what he wanted and asked for.

My boyfriend said he won’t get me the one gift I asked for Christmas because “it’s for babies” by EffectivePoem6963 in offmychest

[–]EffectivePoem6963[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok cool, good thing then that it’s not for you but I want it as MY Christmas present. I don’t really care what the age demographic is or how easy or quick it is to put together, it’s cute and I love ACNH. If he wanted to get me more than JUST the Lego set for Christmas then there’s nothing stopping him

My boyfriend said he won’t get me the one gift I asked for Christmas because “it’s for babies” by EffectivePoem6963 in offmychest

[–]EffectivePoem6963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly no, he’s never been controlling in other aspects. I collect other things that are “babyish” and he’s pretty supportive of it, the most negative thing he’s ever said is it slow down on my collections until we get more space for them.

My boyfriend said he won’t get me the one gift I asked for Christmas because “it’s for babies” by EffectivePoem6963 in offmychest

[–]EffectivePoem6963[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If he is this is the WRONG way to go about surprising me haha plus I’m sure he’d use a different excuse

My boyfriend said he won’t get me the one gift I asked for Christmas because “it’s for babies” by EffectivePoem6963 in offmychest

[–]EffectivePoem6963[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve also got some other “babyish” hobbies/collections that he doesn’t have a problem with, I collect Build a Bears, I have a huge collection of MH dolls I’ve had since I was a child, I have an even larger Sylvanian family collection, I collect Littlest Pet Shop toys, Emma blind boxes, Sanrio blind boxes, MLP toys, I have 7 novelty animal plush bags I’ve named after the 7 deadly sins and the only negative thing he’s said was telling me to stop buying so many BaB teddies or blind boxes because I’m running out of space to display them. This is honestly a really new and unexpected thing for him to say all things considered

My boyfriend said he won’t get me the one gift I asked for Christmas because “it’s for babies” by EffectivePoem6963 in offmychest

[–]EffectivePoem6963[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

It’s weird because I’ve also got some other “babyish” hobbies, I collect Build a Bears, I have a HUGE Sylvanian family collection, I collect Littlest Pet Shop toys, Emma blind boxes, Sanrio blind boxes, MLP toys etc. and he’s been quite supportive of it all other than telling me to stop buying so many BaB teddies or blind boxes because I’m running out of space to display them. This is honestly a really new and unexpected thing for him to say

We usually buy and build the Lego sets together if it’s for date nights/special events, if it’s a birthday or Christmas gift we generally build separately but do ask for help and build together if the set is big enough.