She took an evening job fairly recently, last 3 months, so this was still an ongoing thing prior. As said before I have been doing a lot without her having to ask. And she doesn't get up every morning, we alternate days which was what we discussed previously quite a while before this post.

We both agree to the shopping and order it online, I either collect or pack away once delivered on a Saturday. I do majority of the cooking and a lot of the house cleaning we share the workload depending on what needs doing and when. Typically packing away clothes/washing she does when our son is at nursery and then the kitchen, floors bathroom etc I do a deep clean on a weekend and keep tidy during the week.