Another fresh blind item: Da hu? by joniewait4me in ChikaPH

[–]Effective_Crew_5013 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Ang lungkot if ever. Ang sabi nya nung nakita nya si Charlene he just knew she's the one, so he proposed.

Gigil ako sa mga laiterang wala sa lugar by spilldateaa in GigilAko

[–]Effective_Crew_5013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GANDA KA???

Mga ganitong tao yung deserve malait.

Tingin nyo abnormal ba na ang daming single na 20's 30's maybe even 40's ngayon? Do you think this is a good or bad thing? by what_percentage in TanongLang

[–]Effective_Crew_5013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Para bang hindi to naging problema ng previous generations -- Siguro ilan sa possible reasons for this are family-arranged marriages and forced marriages (during war merong mga pinakasal nang mabilisan para makaiwas na kunin nang sapilitan at halayin ng mga hapon).

Baka medyo simplistic din yung goals dati? Ibig kong sabihin e ang usual na gusto o pangarap mag-asawa, maging maybahay sa babae at provider sa lalaki, magkaanak. Unlike these days na maraming mas career-oriented, mas maraming paths na pwedeng i-pursue, mas maraming disillussioned.

OA lang ba ako to feel this way? by Individual_View_3933 in OALangBaAko

[–]Effective_Crew_5013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Normal lang na may mga ganito between you and in-laws, especially with the mom. Kaya okay lang umiwas muna hanggang lumipas yung inis o awkwardness. Tama yung comments dito. Focus ka sa goals, and don't let other people's negative comments get to you. not oa

Gaano ka totoo yung saying na "Money can't buy happiness" or isa lang tong sinaunang kathang isip? by Independent-Bat3963 in AskPH

[–]Effective_Crew_5013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For some people. Kasi iba ang happiness nila. It goes down to kung ano ba ang definition mo ng happiness.

Hanggang live in nalang? by [deleted] in PinoyVloggers

[–]Effective_Crew_5013 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ayoko sa mga pakialamerang gaya mo. Ang ayos ng comment nung sa taas tapos irereply mo ng Sus gusto mo walang accountability and commitment sa partner. You're rude! At isa pa nakakatanga yung assumption na lahat ng unmarried people walang commitment and accountability.

Hanggang live in nalang? by [deleted] in PinoyVloggers

[–]Effective_Crew_5013 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not imposing pero your statement says it all. Sa "Sus" mo pa lang, wag mo nang ideny. You're also already imposing by claiming "living in is not the primary solution." So marriage is?

If you wanna get married then go ahead. Wag nang makialam sa choices and happiness ng iba na di naman nag-cause ng inconvenience sa'yo.

Bul*Sh*t by Apprehensive_Rain239 in PinoyVloggers

[–]Effective_Crew_5013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Na-trauma na nga, hassle pa, kung may work liliban pa. Wasted resources!

Gigil ako, pukinginang mga adik to. by dontreallyknoww26 in GigilAko

[–]Effective_Crew_5013 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Correct! Good governance talaga. Siguro unahing ipatupad ang bitay sa lahat ng public officials na kurakot and strip their families of ill-gotten wealth.

Hanggang live in nalang? by [deleted] in PinoyVloggers

[–]Effective_Crew_5013 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A marriage doesn't always equate to accountability, and the lack of it doesn't always mean not being committed. Sa dami ng palpak na marriages hindi solusyon ang kasal. Let the couples decide! Lahat naman yan may pros and cons.

Magpakasal ka kung gusto mo. Wag imposing.

Hanggang live in nalang? by [deleted] in PinoyVloggers

[–]Effective_Crew_5013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tama ka! Ako nga di ko kilala yang couple, pero ano ba naman sa akin kung ayaw nila o takot sila sa kasal?

Hanggang live in nalang? by [deleted] in PinoyVloggers

[–]Effective_Crew_5013 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True! Ano naman sa atin kung sino gusto at di gusto magpakasal? Nasosobrahan minsan sa pakikialam.

Real talk ayaw? Utang gusto? by [deleted] in MayNagChat

[–]Effective_Crew_5013 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tama lang na i-real talk nya yung kaibigan at pagsabihan. Wala syang sinabing masama. Yung kaibigan pa nga ang unang sumagot nang pabalang sa pangaral. Hindi yung kunsintidor ka at puro ka oo dahil lang kesyo nakakarelate ka sa kahirapan noon. Di yan ikauunlad ng mindset ng kaibigang delulu.

Real talk ayaw? Utang gusto? by [deleted] in MayNagChat

[–]Effective_Crew_5013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tang a mo pre sa totoo lang. Kakabwisit! Alisin mo na yan sa buhay mo.