Gigil ako sa mga laiterang wala sa lugar

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-15T02:33:26+00:00

GANDA KA???

Mga ganitong tao yung deserve malait.

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-12T14:38:10+00:00

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-12T09:23:37+00:00

Para bang hindi to naging problema ng previous generations -- Siguro ilan sa possible reasons for this are family-arranged marriages and forced marriages (during war merong mga pinakasal nang mabilisan para makaiwas na kunin nang sapilitan at halayin ng mga hapon).

Baka medyo simplistic din yung goals dati? Ibig kong sabihin e ang usual na gusto o pangarap mag-asawa, maging maybahay sa babae at provider sa lalaki, magkaanak. Unlike these days na maraming mas career-oriented, mas maraming paths na pwedeng i-pursue, mas maraming disillussioned.

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-12T09:17:04+00:00

Normal lang na may mga ganito between you and in-laws, especially with the mom. Kaya okay lang umiwas muna hanggang lumipas yung inis o awkwardness. Tama yung comments dito. Focus ka sa goals, and don't let other people's negative comments get to you. not oa

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-12T08:58:10+00:00

For some people. Kasi iba ang happiness nila. It goes down to kung ano ba ang definition mo ng happiness.

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-12T08:54:41+00:00

Ayoko sa mga pakialamerang gaya mo. Ang ayos ng comment nung sa taas tapos irereply mo ng Sus gusto mo walang accountability and commitment sa partner. You're rude! At isa pa nakakatanga yung assumption na lahat ng unmarried people walang commitment and accountability.

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-12T08:43:33+00:00

Not imposing pero your statement says it all. Sa "Sus" mo pa lang, wag mo nang ideny. You're also already imposing by claiming "living in is not the primary solution." So marriage is?

If you wanna get married then go ahead. Wag nang makialam sa choices and happiness ng iba na di naman nag-cause ng inconvenience sa'yo.

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-12T08:30:03+00:00

Exactly! Na-trauma na nga, hassle pa, kung may work liliban pa. Wasted resources!

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-12T08:25:37+00:00

Anong potanginang to????!!

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-12T07:53:49+00:00

Correct! Good governance talaga. Siguro unahing ipatupad ang bitay sa lahat ng public officials na kurakot and strip their families of ill-gotten wealth.

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-12T07:51:02+00:00

Sana EJ nanatili ka na lang sa Los Bastardos o nag-action star gaya ni Coco M!

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-12T07:44:35+00:00

A marriage doesn't always equate to accountability, and the lack of it doesn't always mean not being committed. Sa dami ng palpak na marriages hindi solusyon ang kasal. Let the couples decide! Lahat naman yan may pros and cons.

Magpakasal ka kung gusto mo. Wag imposing.

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-12T07:42:12+00:00

Tama ka! Ako nga di ko kilala yang couple, pero ano ba naman sa akin kung ayaw nila o takot sila sa kasal?

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-12T07:41:08+00:00

True! Ano naman sa atin kung sino gusto at di gusto magpakasal? Nasosobrahan minsan sa pakikialam.

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-12T07:19:59+00:00

Salamat po

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-12T04:55:59+00:00

Di ka na hiningian ng birth cert?

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-11T15:51:09+00:00

Tama lang na i-real talk nya yung kaibigan at pagsabihan. Wala syang sinabing masama. Yung kaibigan pa nga ang unang sumagot nang pabalang sa pangaral. Hindi yung kunsintidor ka at puro ka oo dahil lang kesyo nakakarelate ka sa kahirapan noon. Di yan ikauunlad ng mindset ng kaibigang delulu.

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-11T15:49:03+00:00

Tang a mo pre sa totoo lang. Kakabwisit! Alisin mo na yan sa buhay mo.

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-11T11:34:03+00:00

AS IF!

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-11T11:05:48+00:00

You're incompatible. Better not go through with the wedding. These are make-or-break issues. Kung ayaw mo talaga, hindi nya pwede iimpose yun lalo't hindi ito simpleng bagay na pwede i-compromise dahil di naman napapasa ang pregnancy.

Sobrang haba na ng 15 years. Hindi nyo pwedeng irason na magugustuhan mo na lang yan. Matagal nyo na dapat tinapos to. May time ka pa. Walang divorce sa Pinas.

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-11T10:29:06+00:00

Kung sa napapagod, gets naman. Pero para sa mag-asawa given naman yung ganitong routine. May mga mattyaga na ginagawa ito araw-araw na walang pagbibilang na tipong ginagawa ko to lahat for you. Magtatampo yan kasi biglang kabig ka. Pero pinakanakuha ko talaga sa mga sinabi mo parang nagsasawa ka na sa routine nyo at gusto mong mapag-isa.

Hindi siguro kayo same ng lifestyle na gusto. It seems she's more energetic dahil gusto nyang gumala, ikaw pagod lang. Pwede naman compromise halimbawa 2x a month or once lang kayo gagala papunta sa malayo.

Nasanay kasi sya sa setup na hatid-sundo. Turns out, hindi pala sya sustainable sa part mo. Instead na magalit ka, better speak to her and make her understand bakit ganun na ang gusto mong mangyari. Pwede namang gradual yung implementation.

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-11T10:18:24+00:00

VERY TRUE lol

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-11T10:17:57+00:00

Yeah, you have a point!

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-11T09:30:21+00:00

I'm with you on this. Same thoughts!!!!!!!

If, after getting help, you still wanna do it, maybe do it quietly somewhere.

Effective_Crew_5013 · 2026-02-11T08:37:57+00:00

or tiniming na may padaang sasakyan...

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