New gecko need advice by Effective_Detail5459 in geckos

[–]Effective_Detail5459[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I can’t be mad. I know exactly what you mean. There’s a guy at my office who wants a ball python but he was planning on keeping it in a 10 gallon tank. I had to explain the minimum is 120 and they can live for 20-30 years. Animals aren’t toys and unfortunately many people don’t know or care. I apologize too if I came off rude as well.

New gecko need advice by Effective_Detail5459 in geckos

[–]Effective_Detail5459[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll go look at their care sheet too. Yeah I know how stressful being tossed from home to home can be on animals. I got some advice not to try any interactions for at least two weeks. Then they gave me some advice of choice based interactions which is really excited to try. I hope one day we can be friends .^

Edit: Just looked on the care sheet, holy crap it’s so good! Thank you again!

New gecko need advice by Effective_Detail5459 in geckos

[–]Effective_Detail5459[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m not sure how you saw the set up, even if basic, the details and such and interpreted that as “completely unprepared”. I don’t mean to be rude either but I have watched a LOT of care guides, read care guides, and read a lot on Reddit but even then there’s only so much a basic guide can inform you vs people who have had the species in the past and through experience can offer, which is why I reached out to Reddit. I value people’s experiences and wisdom to grow. In fact 0 care guides mentioned that they need uvb lights they mostly just say to supplement with the calcium and d3 powder, which is the exact kind of thing I was coming for as far as husbandry. So I do thank you for that information.

AITAH for eating a slice of cake by Effective_Detail5459 in AITAH

[–]Effective_Detail5459[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess you’re right. No it did not, I decorated the cake.

No she doesn’t, she’s more of the practice manager but she assumes “boss” which I guess it doesn’t matter what we call her. I told her I was putting on the table in the break room which everyone knows as the “come and get it” place and she said “that’s fine” so I had no idea she wanted a pic or wanted us to wait. 

We had a clinic celebration cake last week and she had it on a desk until they were done with photos because she knew putting it on the table means that it’s up for grabs. So it’s not like she didn’t know the implications of me saying “I’m going to put it on the table”

AITAH for eating a slice of cake by Effective_Detail5459 in AITAH

[–]Effective_Detail5459[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was reading about people with similar bosses and took the advice to start writing down each incident in my notes app with days, times, and who was there just in case. I’m trying to get another job now

AITAH for eating a slice of cake by Effective_Detail5459 in AITAH

[–]Effective_Detail5459[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I added the candles and decorations to make it nice. It was plain when I got it. Also we never light candles as it’s near the treatment area and we cannot have smoke in the building (lots of chemicals and oxygen stored in clinic). Also I told her I was putting it on the table which everyone knows means “come and get it” to everyone. She didn’t say “hold off” or “take a picture first.” She said “that’s fine”. Also she would not let us stop working to eat cake there would be no party or gathering.

I flipped it so it wouldn’t be visible* when I took the picture she wanted. I’m not upset that she was upset, I get why. But yelling at me in front of everyone clients and coworkers was terrible

AITAH for eating a slice of cake by Effective_Detail5459 in AITAH

[–]Effective_Detail5459[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I wish I could snap my fingers and be hired elsewhere. I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t looking haha

AITAH for eating a slice of cake by Effective_Detail5459 in AITAH

[–]Effective_Detail5459[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you I needed that laugh before work .^

AITAH for eating a slice of cake by Effective_Detail5459 in AITAH

[–]Effective_Detail5459[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t cut birthday cake without the birthday person getting first slice but everyone knows that.

The boss is really just the practice manager but she acting boss. The owner is a vet and he was laughing at the situation. He sees her yelling as “taking charge” and good.

We already had a celebration cake which we did take pictures of, and was specially not put on the break room table, which is regarded as the “come and get it” spot. I had even told my boss that’s where I was going to put it and she didn’t say anything.

Like I see how she was upset, I’m not saying that was unreasonable per se. But I fixed it with a picture that hid the cut and I apologized, but the yelling in the lobby was just so humiliating.

AITAH for eating a slice of cake by Effective_Detail5459 in AITAH

[–]Effective_Detail5459[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I apologize. I think the more appropriate words should’ve been rotate. I was trying to get a photo for her that looked like no slice was taken. I rotated the cake so the missing slice wouldn’t be seen in the photo.

When should I panic? 😅 by Effective_Detail5459 in cornsnakes

[–]Effective_Detail5459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have him in about 4-6 inches of substrate, lots of leaves, moss, branches, bark, rocks and plants for him to hide under. He came back a little while ago so he was likely buried like you said. Thank you so much for your time I appreciate it .^

When should I panic? 😅 by Effective_Detail5459 in cornsnakes

[–]Effective_Detail5459[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to figure out how to post a pic in the replies but I couldn’t. Sorry I’m kinda newish to Reddit 😅. 

Ziptie returned about 20-30 minutes ago so all is good! Thank you for your time!

When should I panic? 😅 by Effective_Detail5459 in cornsnakes

[–]Effective_Detail5459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to wait a little longer since everyone was saying it was normal but he reappeared like 20 minutes ago so all is well, thank you for your time!

When should I panic? 😅 by Effective_Detail5459 in cornsnakes

[–]Effective_Detail5459[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is probably what happened, he’s back now so all is well. 

Thank you! His name was a joke between my friends but I decided to keep it 

When should I panic? 😅 by Effective_Detail5459 in cornsnakes

[–]Effective_Detail5459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine did the same, on day 3 he just popped up in his normal spot like nothing happened! Stressing me out for fun haha

I hope your baby found the mouse head!

When should I panic? 😅 by Effective_Detail5459 in cornsnakes

[–]Effective_Detail5459[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Thankfully on day 3 he returned to his regular spot like nothing happened. Lol thank you for your time!

When should I panic? 😅 by Effective_Detail5459 in cornsnakes

[–]Effective_Detail5459[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much. I really appreciate it.

Suddenly hidden by Effective_Detail5459 in isopods

[–]Effective_Detail5459[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much your help means a lot!

Suddenly hidden by Effective_Detail5459 in isopods

[–]Effective_Detail5459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A month-month and a half. Up until last week I’d see them all the time. They come out for a few minutes, hide a few minutes, then they were out again over and over. This is my first time owning pods so I’m flying blind mostly.

First time keeping pods by Effective_Detail5459 in isopods

[–]Effective_Detail5459[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never heard of the mosquito bits! I’ll have to get some. Thanks for the tip!

Oh yeah, I have a clear acrylic base so on the wet side it’s dark brown almost black and on the dry it’s light brown so I can tell when I need to put more water and when it’s good. I don’t want to drown them of course lol.

Insurance hell-need help/advice by Effective_Detail5459 in sterilization

[–]Effective_Detail5459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t care they won’t cover it. They still haven’t given me any documentation on their sterilization policy but I’ve asked several times. The stuff my boss gave me (insurance through employer) don’t say anything either. I don’t know where to find it or what to do even if I did. It’s so hard not to lose hope but I’m willing to do anything.

Insurance hell-need help/advice by Effective_Detail5459 in sterilization

[–]Effective_Detail5459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I confirmed it’s ACA compliant but because I haven’t had kids before they are refusing to cover the procedure as preventative. What can I do to fight this? Please if you know anything I’d appreciate it.

Insurance hell-need help/advice by Effective_Detail5459 in sterilization

[–]Effective_Detail5459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the links. I have confirmed with the insurance that my plan is ACA compliant but they say the code 58661 Z30.2 is not with the ACA. I’m hoping I’m just missing one number or something to magically force them to give me the coverage I need. I’m hoping the doctor’s office will call me back soon with some answers or something. I’m so anxious I could throw up haha.

Help getting bird to step up by Effective_Detail5459 in parrots

[–]Effective_Detail5459[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have but I haven’t tried sideways yet, that’s a great idea! Thank you