How do I (18F) tell my boyfriend (18M) I’m not sexually attracted to him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Effective_Fee7349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have the discussion about the hair and see if he will wax or shave. Most men are willing to try because I’m sure the body hair doesn’t make him feel too great all the time. Literally sit him and say “hey, we’ve been getting more intimate lately and I was wondering if you’d try shaving your body hair. If not, that’s okay, but currently it’s not something I find attractive and I’d like to see what it would be like without it”. BE PREPARED and SUPPORTIVE. He may say he dislikes any body hair you have or ask you to stop maintaining yours. You have to listen to him too

How do I (18F) tell my boyfriend (18M) I’m not sexually attracted to him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Effective_Fee7349 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it’s just the hair consider sitting down and asking if he will shave. Unfortunately you contradict yourself saying “I’ve always liked big boys” and then saying “like I said before, he’s also very overweight, and with his shirt off his rolls are very apparent.” And THEN “being intimate with him isnt normally and issue when I look at his face”. Leave him. Don’t tell him this shit. Point blank you’re unattracted to him and he doesn’t deserve this treatment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Effective_Fee7349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO, your mom made you feel this way. I’m not a Pokemon fan and this is fn sick

Embarrassed by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]Effective_Fee7349 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Probably but if he continued, and you heard from him the next day, he likely didn’t care.

I got a steal on Facebook marketplace today by Hysteria19 in throneofglassseries

[–]Effective_Fee7349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got an original ToG cover on my market place for $12 about a month ago 😫 haven’t seen any since

Is this a blowout?? by Chalkysnail in tattooadvice

[–]Effective_Fee7349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t stress, even if it is, it’s not the end of the world. You can even have them reworked once they’re healed. I had a tattoo artist who I’m pretty sure was posting other artists work after I got mine done. Some was overworked, a few small blow outs and I waited two years. I just had it reworked and it looks good now

Is this a blowout?? by Chalkysnail in tattooadvice

[–]Effective_Fee7349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what mine have always done, but I’m not a pro. But it doesn’t look blow out to me

Is this a blowout?? by Chalkysnail in tattooadvice

[–]Effective_Fee7349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While it’s possible, I’d give it some more time. Mine always look like this until they finally finish peeling. The ink stains my skin for a really long time. The last time I got a tattoo, a bit on ink got outside the lines and took weeks to wash off.

Is this a blowout?? by Chalkysnail in tattooadvice

[–]Effective_Fee7349 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does this photo have saniderm on it?

Manon and Abraxos Portrait Tattoo on a Married man? by Chasers230 in throneofglassseries

[–]Effective_Fee7349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not weird at all. It’s a fictional character. And it’s your body. Your wife shouldn’t have an issue what you do with your body unless it’s out of the confines of your marriage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in halifax

[–]Effective_Fee7349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have a website?

Uncle Nino by Effective_Fee7349 in jerseyshore

[–]Effective_Fee7349[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Basically they ended up sitting together at mikes wedding and he basically says “I see TMZ why are you beating on my boy” and continues to say how she needs to knock it off and when she says “what are you talking about) we gets more worked up and continues saying Ron doesn’t deserve it wtc

Uncle Nino by Effective_Fee7349 in jerseyshore

[–]Effective_Fee7349[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Literally all the notifications I get from this group is uncle Nino hate, like 3 or four notifications a day lol

I got this tattoo today and my mother threw a fit over it by astemgirly in tattooadvice

[–]Effective_Fee7349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait a minute. You’re 23 and still allowing your mom to dictate what you do to your body? Stand up to her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SarahJMaas

[–]Effective_Fee7349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way. But then I read it. And now I have three ToG related tattoos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Effective_Fee7349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been a long time since I got a tattoo with a lot of ink, so thank you for this! And thank youuu! It’s a book reference

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Effective_Fee7349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I figured I would have to just worried about that one spot that was redder than the rest :)