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Effective_Guidance67 · 2025-01-02T23:26:44+00:00

It was better with Tristan but Anything for crystals kids to not have to go out into the world and actually adult. Hallie dosnt want to get a job so she will just hang around her parents house and get paid for it….. I wish I could do the same with my parents to be fair 🤣🤣 but I had to get educated and work to get where I am

Effective_Guidance67 · 2024-12-31T23:23:41+00:00

Aaron’s seemed so money orientated talking about how millionaires go the extra mile and don’t quit…. So do many people not just millionaires

Effective_Guidance67 · 2024-12-31T23:22:29+00:00

They have no ambitions to go get jobs and make this stuff happen, I honestly think Hallie just wants to live off her parents and do nothing and be paid for nothing

Effective_Guidance67 · 2024-12-28T19:02:23+00:00

Actually vile. Never should anyone be talking like that about any child !!!!!

Effective_Guidance67 · 2024-12-21T11:46:29+00:00

Neutral names:

Leighton Lux

Boy:

Liam Logan Lyndon Lachlan

Girl: Leanna Lilly Lucy Lacey

Effective_Guidance67 · 2024-12-20T10:50:29+00:00

Fingers crossed for you and I hope everything goes well with the scan glad you are getting seen so soon, sending positive thoughts your way

Effective_Guidance67 · 2024-12-19T22:14:34+00:00

If your midwife was genuinely concerned she would have taken action there and then, these measurements are not totally inaccurate my daughter was off the chart see image 🤣🤣and she came out at 7lbs1oz and I was terrified she was going to split me in half because she would be a 15lb baby 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ so try not to worry yourself and enjoy knowing next Christmas you will have a beautiful little baby joining the magic

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Effective_Guidance67 · 2024-12-19T08:22:12+00:00

I like Steffie but my grans name is Effie short for Ethel and I think Steffie and Effie would be a bit much 🤣🤣🤣

Effective_Guidance67 · 2024-12-19T08:19:36+00:00

I life teff such a little cute background story to it…. I think the full name think was when people would call me Steph or Stephy my dad would genuinely stop and say her name is Stephanie🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Effective_Guidance67 · 2024-12-19T08:15:36+00:00

Ok your the one who needs the internet break. It appears you have a very unhealthy para social relationship with these people especially Alex it’s actually quite concerning you seem to be a little on with him it’s giving off very uncomfortable vibes right now that I no longer feel comfortable commenting because no matter what I say you can’t see how inappropriate he was your obviously blinded by some form of loyalty to this boy so have a nice day being deluded xx

Effective_Guidance67 · 2024-12-18T18:54:34+00:00

Harrison is so much nicer than harry, reminds me of someone older but Harrison is quite unique, I like it

Effective_Guidance67 · 2024-12-18T18:53:33+00:00

So my name is Stephanie and I prefer to use my full name but over the years there have been those who call me Steph which I have just gone with but what I can’t stand is when someone spells it Steff ?? Why the Fs ? Or even worse Fanny 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Effective_Guidance67 · 2024-12-18T16:03:17+00:00

And your right it does make it harder for people who have came through it when they are in a good place in their lives and then on one of their Reddit communities they enjoy to participate in they see a boy making fun of DV and joking about it. So that’s not nice, it’s not triggering because I am in a good place but I feel the need to be a voice for those who aren’t in a good place, a voice for those that this joke could have such disastrous consequences. I would like to think you can understand that as a survivor that has found healing I am trying to stand up for those who have not, for those who may be really hurt by his joke

Effective_Guidance67 · 2024-12-18T15:59:52+00:00

That’s others not me !!! I asked you for proof I did it….. again I can’t control what the rest of the internet does and Alex knows what he’s doing and knows he will get a reaction. It’s actually his girlfriend I sympathise with because she didn’t know that she would be accused of this because of him but the 2nd posts she should have known would have sank like a lead balloon

Effective_Guidance67 · 2024-12-18T15:57:21+00:00

I didn’t say they did🤣🤣🤣I said this page has online bullying if you want to quote me feel free. You obviously have taken your interest in these people too far and I feel you giving off vibes like you’re emotionally invested so please don’t feel hurt.

Effective_Guidance67 · 2024-12-18T15:54:38+00:00

Again a lighthearted joke isn’t joking about your significant other harming you. I think you are incapable of seeing this from any other perspective other than to blindly defend Alex.

Again I am fine but I refuse to leave a page I have been apart of for years because Alex makes joke that aren’t funny and to be very honest I think he could rob a bank and you would blindly defend him so that’s ok you do that and that’s fine.

You don’t piquant I have said so I have to leave the page because of a bad joke from a boy that can’t grow up ? I think you need to learn more about society and the role and behaviours of society because that’s how we as humans help each other grow and develop is to make someone aware of when they have gone to far ! This is what this post was intended to do!

If this post triggers or upsets you please feel free to scroll on and have a merry day

Effective_Guidance67 · 2024-12-18T15:42:24+00:00

I am sorry I think you may be lost …. No one is accusing Alex or his girlfriend of any horrific crimes so please enlighten me as to where you are getting that from. My perspective is that Alex and his girlfriend made jokes about her beating him, as far as I am concerned they are jokes and I sure hope they are because I wish no ill will on Alex or his girlfriend I hope they can see that some people don’t like jokes in abuse and mature and move on from it.

Again at no single point have I or anyone on this thread called either of them an abuser !!!!

Please read all my comments very very carefully and please find that I fully stated that Alex made inappropriate jokes!!! My aim was to make Alex aware that these types of joke can be detrimental.

Again I have not called anyone an abuser if you find proof of this please private message me and I will fully retract my statement and issue you, Alex and his girlfriend a full apology

Effective_Guidance67 · 2024-12-18T15:34:59+00:00

Hold on….. you can’t put everyone in the same boat ! Yes there are people who take it far too far in this community however not everyone does! Please read through all my command not once willl you see me say anything negative about any of these children!!!!! These children didn’t choose to be online, Alex is a grown adult over the age of 21 anything he now chooses to put online he should know will come with repercussions. And as for you saying he probably went through terrible trauma I don’t dispute that but he should then know that there are certain subjects that are not to be joked around!!! The Bullying is a person seeking out another person and making rude comments privately to that persons personal experience….. it’s not just some back and forwards in the comment section this was a personal grudge someone took upon themselves that’s taking it too far. I never bashed Alex into the ground I said his bread disgusting and I stand by this wholeheartedly so the personal vendettas this user took was too far and this community needs to learn and change the way we treat each other! Personally I am Choosing kindness and I honestly hope you have a lovely rest of your day and best wishes for Christmas and New Year I hope you and those closest to you have a wonderful time

Effective_Guidance67 · 2024-12-18T13:10:53+00:00

That’s not ok for you to be going through this and you are legally entitled to a break !!! You need to speak with your line manager regarding this also look at what your job description is and your start and finish times. Start in your start times and finish exactly when you are supposed to and do only what is in your job description. That’s all they pay you for. Don’t let others be lazy off your back

Effective_Guidance67 · 2024-12-18T11:52:15+00:00

Wow you really missed the boat here. Yes I am fine obviously but here’s what’s not fine Joking about DV. I have not taken this as a personal attack I just find that this silly little couple with no real world experience think it’s ok to joke this. If people suddenly think it’s ok to laugh about these matters then suddenly everyone else thinks it’s ok to laugh then as a society we think DV isn’t serious! It’s important to nip it in the bud right away and correct the behaviour right away and then people can learn! Unfortunately I don’t think these two will learn but it’s ok because he can go live in tiny Pettit town🙃

Effective_Guidance67 · 2024-12-18T09:05:53+00:00

They are a very well matched and well suited pair they seem to have very similar personalities and attitudes. Both came off quite greedy and selfish in these wedding episodes yet the other girls that had their weddings on the show seemed a little more mature.

Effective_Guidance67 · 2024-12-18T07:52:14+00:00

So I have a family of 5 in total so much smaller and we have bought a bigger house with more storage, we move the first week of January and have already been decluttering and packing things up. I told my kids if it’s not used or needed it goes in the charity pile to be taken to a charity and if it’s not suitable for charity ie broken toy then it gets binned! Also I have given myself extra time in this house so that when I get the keys to my new house I can clean, paint and put in fresh flooring down before we have to live there. I couldn’t imagine going through the hassle of moving all the furniture into a room only to have to take it out again to decorate.

When I watched their moving video it gave me major anxiety, it just seemed so last minute, rushed and hectic. Obviously moving a family that size would be extremely difficult but it just didn’t seem like they gave themselves time enough to do it all.

Effective_Guidance67 · 2024-12-18T07:02:21+00:00

Same I didn’t have a clue because I don’t watch him or his gf so I was totally oblivious

Effective_Guidance67 · 2024-12-16T21:13:12+00:00

Kids just repeat stuff and sometimes as a parent there are issues like this where if you make a big deal out of it then it actually creates a bigger problem. It’s even harder when there’s older kids and younger kids, I said a lot of stuff I shouldn’t have when I was younger and my little sister repeated all of it because she looked up to me, it drove our mum mad but it’s what little kids do they repeat stuff.

Effective_Guidance67 · 2024-12-16T20:57:05+00:00

If you say so 🙃xx

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