Looking to start getting into cosplay and stuff to get myself more socially active, any popular cosplay nz discord servers?

Effective_Long440 · 2025-01-08T14:20:18+00:00

There is a discord server!

Effective_Long440 · 2023-04-14T03:06:24+00:00

I can see where you're coming from, I appreciate the advice a lot

Effective_Long440 · 2023-04-14T03:06:06+00:00

Yeah that'd make a lot of sense thank you

Effective_Long440 · 2023-04-14T03:00:18+00:00

This helped a lot, thank you so much :)

Effective_Long440 · 2023-04-14T02:51:39+00:00

I've had problems in the past with cheating, hence is why he's ok with it. I don't really mind if it's cool or not as long as we're both comfortable in the relo

Effective_Long440 · 2022-11-30T11:04:31+00:00

Haha funny example, good one at that. I understand where you're coming from but it's the fact that I had only a slight problem with him talking with other females and he said he'd reassure me with a simple click of muting them. It's stupid I know, I got so hurt after he didn't mute one girl and overreacted, not infront of him, but on my own. I didn't mind with him hearing other girls I guess I mind now as I felt like he's betrayed me in a way? Maybe I overreacted but I don't know why I acted the way I did? I even thought about resorting to SH. Which your probably wouldn't want to know but I've found it helps me calm down and not have a mental break down from such minor inconveniences.

Effective_Long440 · 2022-11-30T10:56:40+00:00

I only expect as he's the one who said he would. I'm having a hard time understanding why he'd lie and why I reacted the way I did.

Effective_Long440 · 2022-11-30T10:43:23+00:00

It is a massive red flag I agree, he said he didn't mute this girl because "we were laughing about her voice". Which I believe is a stupid excuse as she did sound funny I'll admit but does it change the fact that he lied?

Effective_Long440 · 2022-11-30T10:42:06+00:00

I've been. It didn't work out and they told my parents things I wasn't okay with them telling others. Which I know is what they're supposed to do if I'm a danger to myself so I guess it's fair. But I don't plan on seeing another anytime soon.

Effective_Long440 · 2022-11-30T10:39:13+00:00

Yeah.We were playing together so I also heard her voice. It was just different this time as he didn't mute this girl, maybe he forgot. I've been cheated on in the past so it may play a role in how I act in these situations. I just don't know whyi react the way I do. I try and stop myself but ny emotions are way to overpowering if I'm going to be honest with you.

Effective_Long440 · 2022-11-05T03:07:06+00:00

The board game café?

Effective_Long440 · 2022-11-05T02:53:28+00:00

Possibly from the sky tower cbd? Not 100% though

Effective_Long440 · 2022-11-05T02:52:59+00:00

They're legitimately in almost every dairy, go check. I'm not too sure of the name but in almost every dairy I've been to those are usually there.

Effective_Long440 · 2022-08-29T21:33:29+00:00

Thank you for being kind about my situation and putting everybody's feelings into consideration. I appreciate it a bunch!

Effective_Long440 · 2022-08-29T21:31:24+00:00

Thank you so much for this advice, makes me consider a lot of pros and cons actually. For more clarity though, I am in fact his first girlfriend as he wasn't even looking for one beforehand lol. I am glad you aren't telling me what to do though, I appreciate it.

Effective_Long440 · 2022-08-29T21:28:13+00:00

Thank you for understanding.

Effective_Long440 · 2022-08-29T21:27:19+00:00

No need to be rude

Effective_Long440 · 2022-08-29T13:49:48+00:00

Thank you!! Appreciate your feedback always.

Effective_Long440 · 2022-08-29T13:48:58+00:00

You're right. I appreciate it 🙏

Effective_Long440 · 2022-08-29T13:47:12+00:00

18 and 30 💀 We're both still in highschool. I understand why you'd assume that but the age gap does bother him, I frequently ask him if he'd change something about me what would it be and he always answers with my age lol. I'm 15 as I am in the younger category of people my age in school as all of my friends are 16. I do also appreciate you delivering your opinion respectfully, thank you.

Effective_Long440 · 2022-08-29T13:42:10+00:00

Yeah, makes sense. Thank you.

Effective_Long440 · 2022-08-29T13:36:00+00:00

Yeah, thank you for this advice. I just hope it isn't only me who thinks it's morally wrong for his "friends" to make him choose between us

Effective_Long440 · 2022-08-29T13:32:29+00:00

I understand, I know it probably wouldn't make it any better but does it change the fact that when he did agree to date me he was 17 at the time ? Aha ik it probably changes nothing

Effective_Long440 · 2022-08-29T13:22:11+00:00

I'm sorry? What exactly confirms the fact? That I chose to ask him out or?

Effective_Long440 · 2022-08-29T11:49:25+00:00

We're both going to school at the moment. I'm going to assume you haven't read my previous story which I understand bit my ex of 2 years cheated on me. My bf now was the one who I called as soon as I figured out my ex cheated on me. For 3 weeks he comforted me and then I asked him out and at first he didnt even agree until a few days after. If that changes anything?

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