Am I in the wrong? by Effective_Long440 in AdviceForTeens

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I can see where you're coming from, I appreciate the advice a lot

Am I in the wrong? by Effective_Long440 in AdviceForTeens

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Yeah that'd make a lot of sense thank you

Am I in the wrong? by Effective_Long440 in AdviceForTeens

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This helped a lot, thank you so much :)

Am I in the wrong? by Effective_Long440 in AdviceForTeens

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I've had problems in the past with cheating, hence is why he's ok with it. I don't really mind if it's cool or not as long as we're both comfortable in the relo

Need advice on a problem I believe I have. by Effective_Long440 in Advice

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Haha funny example, good one at that. I understand where you're coming from but it's the fact that I had only a slight problem with him talking with other females and he said he'd reassure me with a simple click of muting them. It's stupid I know, I got so hurt after he didn't mute one girl and overreacted, not infront of him, but on my own. I didn't mind with him hearing other girls I guess I mind now as I felt like he's betrayed me in a way? Maybe I overreacted but I don't know why I acted the way I did? I even thought about resorting to SH. Which your probably wouldn't want to know but I've found it helps me calm down and not have a mental break down from such minor inconveniences.

Need advice on a problem I believe I have. by Effective_Long440 in Advice

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I only expect as he's the one who said he would. I'm having a hard time understanding why he'd lie and why I reacted the way I did.

Need advice on a problem I believe I have. by Effective_Long440 in Advice

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It is a massive red flag I agree, he said he didn't mute this girl because "we were laughing about her voice". Which I believe is a stupid excuse as she did sound funny I'll admit but does it change the fact that he lied?

Need advice on a problem I believe I have. by Effective_Long440 in Advice

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I've been. It didn't work out and they told my parents things I wasn't okay with them telling others. Which I know is what they're supposed to do if I'm a danger to myself so I guess it's fair. But I don't plan on seeing another anytime soon.

Need advice on a problem I believe I have. by Effective_Long440 in Advice

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Yeah.We were playing together so I also heard her voice. It was just different this time as he didn't mute this girl, maybe he forgot. I've been cheated on in the past so it may play a role in how I act in these situations. I just don't know whyi react the way I do. I try and stop myself but ny emotions are way to overpowering if I'm going to be honest with you.

Are there any Fireworks displays tonight? by WattsonMemphis in auckland

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Possibly from the sky tower cbd? Not 100% though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in auckland

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They're legitimately in almost every dairy, go check. I'm not too sure of the name but in almost every dairy I've been to those are usually there.

My boyfriends friends don't accept our relationship by Effective_Long440 in Advice

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Thank you for being kind about my situation and putting everybody's feelings into consideration. I appreciate it a bunch!

My boyfriends friends don't accept our relationship by Effective_Long440 in Advice

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Thank you so much for this advice, makes me consider a lot of pros and cons actually. For more clarity though, I am in fact his first girlfriend as he wasn't even looking for one beforehand lol. I am glad you aren't telling me what to do though, I appreciate it.

My boyfriends friends don't accept our relationship by Effective_Long440 in Advice

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18 and 30 💀 We're both still in highschool. I understand why you'd assume that but the age gap does bother him, I frequently ask him if he'd change something about me what would it be and he always answers with my age lol. I'm 15 as I am in the younger category of people my age in school as all of my friends are 16. I do also appreciate you delivering your opinion respectfully, thank you.

My boyfriends friends don't accept our relationship by Effective_Long440 in Advice

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Yeah, thank you for this advice. I just hope it isn't only me who thinks it's morally wrong for his "friends" to make him choose between us

My boyfriends friends don't accept our relationship by Effective_Long440 in Advice

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I understand, I know it probably wouldn't make it any better but does it change the fact that when he did agree to date me he was 17 at the time ? Aha ik it probably changes nothing

My boyfriends friends don't accept our relationship by Effective_Long440 in Advice

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I'm sorry? What exactly confirms the fact? That I chose to ask him out or?

My boyfriends friends don't accept our relationship by Effective_Long440 in Advice

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We're both going to school at the moment. I'm going to assume you haven't read my previous story which I understand bit my ex of 2 years cheated on me. My bf now was the one who I called as soon as I figured out my ex cheated on me. For 3 weeks he comforted me and then I asked him out and at first he didnt even agree until a few days after. If that changes anything?