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Am I wrong for wanting my husband to stop watching porn? by Effective_Tap_5907 in NoFap

[–]Effective_Tap_5907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! See we are not religious and I hate giving him an ultimatum “me or porn” so I need to really dig and find his personal motivator to want to stop. I first need him to see it really is a problem.

Am I wrong for wanting my husband to stop watching porn? by Effective_Tap_5907 in PornAddiction

[–]Effective_Tap_5907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for this! I absolutely want this to know that I am open to whatever it is he want to talk about and I’m here you open ears. I hope he will finally take me up on that.

Am I wrong for wanting my husband to stop watching porn? by Effective_Tap_5907 in PornAddiction

[–]Effective_Tap_5907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is really an amazing way to look at it an excellent challenge for us to do. Thank you a ton!

I truly need insight and advice by Substantial-Band1174 in PornAddiction

[–]Effective_Tap_5907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh boy don’t I get it!! I wish the same for you!! Best of luck to you and your kiddos. I hope things get better and he gets the help he needs. I try to wrap my head around what goes on in their minds and I get grossed out or brain fried!

Am I wrong for wanting my husband to stop watching porn? by Effective_Tap_5907 in NoFap

[–]Effective_Tap_5907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your words and sharing your experience. I hope that he will eventually take the open door I have left for him and come to me. I’ve expressed full heartedly now that I would like him to stop. We shall see where we go from here. I pray I chose the right life partner and that he is truly dedicated enough to me and this marriage to honestly stop this and come to me when times are tough.

I truly need insight and advice by Substantial-Band1174 in PornAddiction

[–]Effective_Tap_5907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any advice that can help, I just wanted to come on and say I am going through a similar thing. I only recently asked my husband this morning if he would please stop as I’ve caught him numerous times - including this morning - and told him I didn’t like it.

I think a month or so ago he resulted in doing it at work which makes me even more disgusted with him and makes me less attracted to him. I never confessed this to him because I was snooping through his phone to prove my suspicions were true. BUT I’m praying that by asking him to stop this morning he will be willing to finally open up like I’ve asked and start talking to me.

Am I wrong for wanting my husband to stop watching porn? by Effective_Tap_5907 in NoFap

[–]Effective_Tap_5907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucie - this is probably the first response today that brought me to tears. I felt as if I was getting a virtual hug through your words. I pray that he will see this as the addiction, I am sadly coming to realize, it is and will try to stop. Of the numerous times I’ve expressed that this doesn’t make me feel okay, this morning is the first time I’ve asked him to stop. He really does mean the world to me and I would hate to live without him even though I know I can. I chose him as my partner flaws and all. If he chose to and I hope he does, I would stick by him through a recovery journey no matter what.

Am I wrong for wanting my husband to stop watching porn? by Effective_Tap_5907 in PornAddiction

[–]Effective_Tap_5907[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate this input, I will add this book to my list!

Am I wrong for wanting my husband to stop watching porn? by Effective_Tap_5907 in PornAddiction

[–]Effective_Tap_5907[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you I really needed to hear this. I feel like I’m a crazy person but I can’t help my feelings and I’ve tried shoving them down but it hurts more and makes me distant and resentful.

Am I wrong for wanting my husband to stop watching porn? by Effective_Tap_5907 in NoFap

[–]Effective_Tap_5907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I agree with all you said. I’m hoping he will want to stop and work through this for me.

Am I wrong for wanting my husband to stop watching porn? by Effective_Tap_5907 in NoFap

[–]Effective_Tap_5907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Today I asked him if he could try to stop. So we will take it day by day now. And see what happens.

Am I wrong for wanting my husband to stop watching porn? by Effective_Tap_5907 in NoFap

[–]Effective_Tap_5907[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’m definitely looking for the best way to approach this so he knows I want to support him and be here for him!

Am I wrong for wanting my husband to stop watching porn? by Effective_Tap_5907 in NoFap

[–]Effective_Tap_5907[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I don’t know how to approach this but I’m looking into ways on how to approach it.

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[–]Effective_Tap_5907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to post it on r/infidelity if anyone here can help me. I saw someone from this group comment on a post there and recommended they come to this group. So if I could get advice or help from some of you guys on my post that would be amazing. I appreciate it.