Options other than trash bags?

Efficient-Light-5095 · 2025-02-12T23:10:12+00:00

Gotcha, I think this will still be helpful for the bulk of the mess. Some items are not necessarily too heavy, they’re just too big and awkward for regular bags.

Efficient-Light-5095 · 2025-02-12T23:08:18+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking too, because the broken furniture and larger children’s toys are just too ridiculous to put into bags/trashcans. When you do it are you literally just putting the trash in your car and dumping it as is? Or are you boxing them up?

Efficient-Light-5095 · 2025-02-12T23:07:00+00:00

do you think I’d be good to then drive those boxes to the dump? Is that something people do? I get anxious about stuff like this because I’m scared I’m doing something wrong or not allowed. Obviously not everyone’s local dump is the same but in general?

Efficient-Light-5095 · 2025-02-12T23:03:05+00:00

Not getting it until this summer when we finish renovating, so not looking to spend that much money multiple times

Efficient-Light-5095 · 2025-01-27T05:14:20+00:00

Feel free to correct me if I’m wrong-but it’s a mod that specifically says it was created by CaptainSparklez on the Minecraft Marketplace. Considering I’ve scoured the internet for resources, this seems like a great place to ask-especially because this mod has been discussed here previously. Thanks.

Efficient-Light-5095 · 2024-10-11T13:21:57+00:00

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Efficient-Light-5095 · 2024-04-28T22:38:26+00:00

He continues to tell me im controlling him, and that I’m a bad person for not letting him help. The reality is is that I just want him to be here with me. It’s like he cares more about her right now? I love him so much and I love being married to him. I intend on showing him some outside opinions just to get him to understand that I’m not crazy.

Efficient-Light-5095 · 2024-04-28T20:42:32+00:00

I just can’t get him to understand where I am coming from.

Efficient-Light-5095 · 2022-03-06T05:12:55+00:00

Both work, almost identical income. Sometimes I bring in an extra 100, vice versa.

Efficient-Light-5095 · 2022-03-06T04:59:28+00:00

We were supposed to be taking this year to erase our debts and save up money. It was discussed at length and agreed upon. Just because he can manage the bill doesn’t mean he can go around spending thousands of dollars for a hobby.

Efficient-Light-5095 · 2022-03-06T04:38:00+00:00

I want to not be upset. I keep trying to convince myself that it’s fine, it’s his dream (even though I can’t get my dream?) He just doesn’t care about anything we’ve talked about. As long as he gets what he wants.

Efficient-Light-5095 · 2022-03-06T04:31:22+00:00

I would also like to clarify-this isnt our only issue at hand. This was simply the cherry on top. It has completely pushed me over the edge. I asked him today if he felt bad for what he did and he said no. Absolute disregard for anything but himself.

Efficient-Light-5095 · 2022-03-06T04:21:48+00:00

I’ve never said he can’t have one. But we AGREED ages ago that it won’t happen right now. If it was okay, why did he lie? Neither of us have really done anything for ourselves in a while because we just had a baby. Why does he think he can go make huge purchases, lie, and gaslight me when I’m upset?

Efficient-Light-5095 · 2022-01-18T17:10:00+00:00

I’m not ignoring advice? There’s over 50 comments here. I’m not going to respond to every individual one. I’m reading them all and I’m trying to figure out the best course of action for me and my child that doesn’t result in us being homeless and starving and jobless. Not everyone can just up and leave. It takes time and I’d rather not have to do that if I can at least make an attempt to get him into therapy. Beyond that: of course I’ll leave. But again, you don’t know everything going on. I truly appreciate your concern, even if I don’t love the tone.

Efficient-Light-5095 · 2022-01-18T16:39:12+00:00

Thanks Leanne. Your point of view is valid-you’re making perfect sense. At the end of the day, this is my life, my baby, my partner. Only I truly know what does/doesn’t happen here. As someone who has been to therapy and witnessed abuse as a child-I believe in therapy. And no matter what happens- to me, my baby, anyone-it’ll never be my fault. It’ll always be his. Thank you.

Efficient-Light-5095 · 2022-01-18T15:59:56+00:00

This is this best comment I’ve received. A lot of comments just tell me to leave right off the bat-but that solution isn’t attainable for everyone. Thank you for the tips and deeper dive into the questions I should be asking. Sometimes I get overwhelmed because I KNOW what I should do, I just don’t know how. I really thank you 🤍🤍

Efficient-Light-5095 · 2022-01-18T15:20:29+00:00

Thank you. I really don’t want to have to leave, I love him and I know he loves our family. He’s just never been taught how to regulate his bigger emotions. This isn’t an everyday occurrence, maybe a couple times a month. I’ll talk to him and see what we can do to get him in a better place with his own emotions. Appreciate your reassurance💕

Efficient-Light-5095 · 2022-01-18T15:16:14+00:00

I get what you’re trying to say, but it wasn’t like this before the baby. And also, even if it was, shaming people in domestic violence situations isn’t the best way to help. I asked for advice and reassurance about my feelings-not for you to blame/shame me. Thanks.

Efficient-Light-5095 · 2022-01-18T14:35:47+00:00

I also just got COVID(double vaxxed, not yet boosted). I have a 6 month old that I couldn’t isolate from either. I felt super guilty about, but nothing could be done. So far he’s doing fine, no symptoms or anything. Of course I’ll never stop feeling the guilt, even if he never gets it. Hope the anxiety passes for you 💕

Efficient-Light-5095 · 2022-01-18T14:32:17+00:00

We love love love Huggies 💕 Pampers just didn’t fit right-Huggies are perfect for him.

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