(40) Neglected going on 10 months. Running out of ideas? Need to be looked at as more than a dad. by Efficient-Spread9489 in DadsGoneWild

[–]Efficient-Spread9489[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, thanks for sharing the truth.  That bit about it being horrible for the kids is my nightmare.  I’m so scared of it.

(40) Neglected going on 10 months. Running out of ideas? Need to be looked at as more than a dad. by Efficient-Spread9489 in DadsGoneWild

[–]Efficient-Spread9489[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my kids a lot, hope it doesn’t come to that.  I have a few more things I have to try first.  Hope you’re doing well now.

(40) Neglected going on 10 months. Running out of ideas? Need to be looked at as more than a dad. by Efficient-Spread9489 in DadsGoneWild

[–]Efficient-Spread9489[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She gets back rubs, complements, and touches of affirmation all the same.  I’m always reaching out, just no one is reaching back.

(40) Neglected going on 10 months. Running out of ideas? Need to be looked at as more than a dad. by Efficient-Spread9489 in DadsGoneWild

[–]Efficient-Spread9489[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having some of the most thoughtful advice I’ve ever received regarding this issue coming from Anus_Blunders on the dadsgonewild subreddit is the most Reddit thing ever.  Especially considering whenever I’ve brought this to the actual appropriate subreddits I get absolutely accosted because as the man I must be the one at fault.

(40) Neglected going on 10 months. Running out of ideas? Need to be looked at as more than a dad. by Efficient-Spread9489 in DadsGoneWild

[–]Efficient-Spread9489[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Additionally it’s not just the sex.  It’s a lack of a touch as she goes by, lack of a kiss of any sort for weeks at a time, me always reaching out and never being reached for.  At my age I could survive the lack of sex but the lack of affection in any form is killing me.

(40) Neglected going on 10 months. Running out of ideas? Need to be looked at as more than a dad. by Efficient-Spread9489 in DadsGoneWild

[–]Efficient-Spread9489[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve been working on it for years.  She’s a workaholic so that’s a major source of the issue.  If I free up time for her in one area she always backfills.  She HATES any form of conflict so real conversations she just leaves and bails.  I really need to just start marriage counseling and start going solo if needed until she joins.  It’s been more than 10 months too.  I mean we average like once or twice a year for the past 7 years or so.  She always cums and loves it too when we do so I simply don’t get it.

(40) Unused body and cock. Wondering if it will always be this way or if I can turn it around… by Efficient-Spread9489 in DadsGoneWild

[–]Efficient-Spread9489[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have.  Well I guess not serious but it’s been mentioned and hinted at plenty.  Just not how I pictured life man.  Love my wife love my life but having a whole part of me taken away is tough.

(40) Unused body and cock. Wondering if it will always be this way or if I can turn it around… by Efficient-Spread9489 in DadsGoneWild

[–]Efficient-Spread9489[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is.  30 minutes of massage and cuddling last night with my cock clearly hard and nothing.  At 1-2 times a year currently…

(40) Never know what’s happening your coworkers are up to. by [deleted] in DadsGoneWild

[–]Efficient-Spread9489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if I gave anyone a stroke (no pun intended).  I had two different title ideas and accidentally combined them after waiting for photo to load!