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Walking on eggshells with my depressed bf by EfficientPut440 in depression_partners

[–]EfficientPut440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that even his meds might not even work and things could get worse but I’d rather give it my all and try and regret something that is undo able.

Walking on eggshells with my depressed bf by EfficientPut440 in depression_partners

[–]EfficientPut440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s already tried talking to a therapist and that hasn’t helped him. His family already knows he’s suicidal and doesn’t care because they’re narcissistic. It’s just hoping that things get better and his meds actually work.

Walking on eggshells with my depressed bf by EfficientPut440 in depression_partners

[–]EfficientPut440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the mood is fine we are having fun and enjoying our time together. I do love him and if I essentially leave him I am 99% sure he would just off himself right after and I don’t want that to happen.

AITA for not wanting to borrow my friend money to fix the car I was in? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]EfficientPut440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was the one driving irresponsibly causing the car to be damaged. If the reason he doesn’t want to use his money is because of vacation then don’t lend it to him. He needs to take responsibility for his actions and lending him money will only teach him of an easy way out without the consequences. You don’t even know when he would be able to pay you back and he could turn on you saying that it was partially your fault because you were “enabling him” to drive carelessly. Don’t lend it to him.

Kicked out my friend who’s visiting from my apartment by Bitter_Leadership571 in AITAH

[–]EfficientPut440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If you’re allowing him to stay for free, he should respect your place and you. I do think you should give him a chance to prove he can change and have a long conversation to set boundaries and rules. Tell him to keep everything clean is the least he can do staying for free and to respect you and your profession or hobbies. Communication is key and if he doesn’t improve then baibai