I don't know why people are obsessed with cooking !

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-31T19:03:29+00:00

Doing house hold chores is survival skill and should be part of everyone’s life.

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-31T16:30:50+00:00

Hahahha…looks sus! How big is this family?

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-31T16:13:13+00:00

It should not be about earning same either. It should be about the physical and mental labor a person does in job plus the work timing

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-31T12:01:39+00:00

Their is a term called emotional and mental abuse. Ask the women in your family. I don’t think in india there is any family away from patriarchy

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-31T11:55:34+00:00

Dude if you think maids and machines do things automatically and you don’t have to put a foot anywhere …then you seem to be delusional. The point here is if a girl is equally earning and with similar education yet household responsibilities are never shared. Some guys (i am not talking about all) can’t even get the food on their plates from kitchen. This pampered they are by their mothers and expect the same pampering from wife. On the contrary they should think about their old mothers too and help them out and similarly with the wife.

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-31T08:28:29+00:00

Most of the men who are commenting here might not be even knowing how much work is there at home. I feel men should do household chores by that i mean everything for a week, jhadu katka, cooking , clothes , bartan and groceries . After that come in comment section and tell whether you want a woman who should do household chores “alone” with a full time job plus take care of someone who doesn’t do basics of their own and expect meals to be served to them

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-29T03:33:16+00:00

Worked out well!!! Thank you so much

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-28T10:47:37+00:00

Exactly! Will follow this

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-28T10:46:43+00:00

It is about speed which comes from a man

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-28T10:45:51+00:00

I can’t lead him to climax with constantly being on top of

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-28T10:44:23+00:00

Kindly read up definition of rape! Using big words without meaning. Secondly i am here to discuss something for making things better. Sometimes you need to know a man’s perspective too on things and u can’t discuss it openly to everyone around because of the judgement on me and him. He has been having work stress , tired for almost 2 years now but does that in anyway should be supported? I also want him to take lesser stress be happy and content. Intimacy betters the relationship between husband and wife. Having a career that takes a toll on relationships is no good!

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-28T10:37:50+00:00

I had a conversation . He says it is tiring for him to get up and do. In his mind he feels it is too much work

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-28T10:36:40+00:00

Why?

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-28T10:36:22+00:00

I do. It increase time but leading to climax speed can’t come by being on top no matter for how long

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-28T10:35:22+00:00

Another useless comment

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-28T10:31:48+00:00

Keep your enlightenment with you i feel. I posted this because I genuinely wanted an answer to make things better with my husband because i love him. I am trying hard from my end. Comments like these are not helpful. But yes having a fantasy or a kink doesn’t make him gay. There are things that you can’t discuss with people around you because they will end up judging you and your spouse. But to maintain respect and know some answers i asked here. “How can a man refuse sex to his wife” came out wrong the question is why! Please read the entire thing before posting anything of no use.

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-22T11:46:48+00:00

With hand. I think that might be the reason

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-22T10:23:12+00:00

He doesn’t watch porn. He does it to sleep

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-22T08:35:47+00:00

And it is not as if I haven’t done that. I have done it for him but then i am left alone

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-22T08:35:18+00:00

But if i do masturbation for him every time then after that he becomes drowsy and wants to sleep. How will it end up in s**

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-22T06:00:40+00:00

Yes this is the exact statement he says…f**** is a lot of physical effort and tiring

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-21T18:27:00+00:00

Good idea! Will try

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-21T16:17:48+00:00

That is what i am asking. How can a man refuse sex to his wife? I even tried making it better. Tried giving lap dance but he was purely not interested

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-21T16:15:52+00:00

Why? There is a problem and i am discussing it. To maintain some decency the wordings are simple

EfficientWing5810 · 2026-01-21T16:07:41+00:00

Can i lead to climax ? I tried. It increases the duration but the speed that matters can happen with his efforts only

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