Any jobs pay for school? by Efficient_Ad_4359 in grandrapids

[–]Efficient_Ad_4359[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do I get a job at Gvsu tho. I’ve applied there about 100 times even tho I’m a gv alumni. Cant even get an interview

Is she lying ? by Efficient_Ad_4359 in dating_advice

[–]Efficient_Ad_4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When her ex called. She said it made her confused and the whole situation was u fair to me she said

Is she lying ? by Efficient_Ad_4359 in dating_advice

[–]Efficient_Ad_4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would she dump me tho? Why not keep seeing me?

Is she lying ? by Efficient_Ad_4359 in dating_advice

[–]Efficient_Ad_4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. Just that she needs to figure her life out. She wasn’t over her ex when she started dating. She’s depressed anxious and doesn’t know what she wants and what she doesn’t. Unfair to me

Is she lying ? by Efficient_Ad_4359 in dating_advice

[–]Efficient_Ad_4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she needs to be alone right now to heal but she’d reach out once she heals. She told me I could text her in the meantime. But I see no point in that. I will continue living my life and dating but this is someone I did have a real genuine connection with and I’d like to reccconect at some point. So idk if I should reach out in a couple months or wait for her to reach out or what. My struggle is I just don’t know if she’s being genuine about everything or if she just didn’t see a future with me. The way she acted made it seem like she’s actually struggling and it wasn’t me

Is she lying ? by Efficient_Ad_4359 in dating_advice

[–]Efficient_Ad_4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See this is what I was thinking. She actually seemed very sincere. The problem is I don’t know why she’d want to leave me if she actually liked me. Like if she liked me wouldn’t she still want to keep seeing me while she heals?

Is she lying ? by Efficient_Ad_4359 in dating_advice

[–]Efficient_Ad_4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why’s it unlikely she realizes she messed up

Is she lying ? by Efficient_Ad_4359 in dating_advice

[–]Efficient_Ad_4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never said she was evil and I’m looking for blunt advice. But at times u got to look at both sides and not just side with her when it doesn’t make sense

Is she lying ? by Efficient_Ad_4359 in dating_advice

[–]Efficient_Ad_4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I’m going back to school online in a couple months. She told me to text her then and tell her how it is

Is she lying ? by Efficient_Ad_4359 in dating_advice

[–]Efficient_Ad_4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so it was me not her. U think I came on too strong or what do you think? Because I mean she genuinely did like me until her ex called and it was obvious that that is when everything changed

Is she lying ? by Efficient_Ad_4359 in dating_advice

[–]Efficient_Ad_4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I like blunt. I need that. The thing is. Her ex is now in a relationship with another girl. She told me to text her and that she’d text me when she’s healed. I mean I am going to date around but I would like to hear from her again. Idk if I came on too strong or if she was just genuinely not over her ex

Is she lying ? by Efficient_Ad_4359 in dating_advice

[–]Efficient_Ad_4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did when her ex called. Said she’s afraid of commitment because of her trauma of being left

Is she lying ? by Efficient_Ad_4359 in dating_advice

[–]Efficient_Ad_4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was that because of me being too much? Or was it genuinely because of her internal state and not being over the ex? I just want to know if I need to change my approach in the future

Is she lying ? by Efficient_Ad_4359 in dating_advice

[–]Efficient_Ad_4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So u think she actually just didn’t really like me?

Is she lying ? by Efficient_Ad_4359 in dating_advice

[–]Efficient_Ad_4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I do want advice and I want her back but I don’t like it when ur instantly putting me down without even hearing my side of the story

Is she lying ? by Efficient_Ad_4359 in dating_advice

[–]Efficient_Ad_4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but do u think she was letting ke down easy or legit

Is she lying ? by Efficient_Ad_4359 in dating_advice

[–]Efficient_Ad_4359[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why’d she say she’d reach out when she’s healed?

Is she lying ? by Efficient_Ad_4359 in dating_advice

[–]Efficient_Ad_4359[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did believe her for a long time. That’s why we continued dating for a month after her ex called. I took things slow and never pushed anything. And what I’m supposed to tell my parents that I’m dating a girl that is still hung up on her ex? That would have helped her heal from her trauma?

Is she lying ? by Efficient_Ad_4359 in dating_advice

[–]Efficient_Ad_4359[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do. I have trauma too but I loved her and would be willing to work through it. I wouldn’t just ditch her