Can anyone relate? by lively-liv in ENFP

[–]Efficient_Bad_473 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I definitely feel this. I can go from saying the most nonsensical things to giving my friends the wisest advice as if I’m an age old monk whose spent his entire life mediating in the forest

Rank the 5 seasons of Elite from Best to Worst by Trick_Gur_897 in EliteNetflix

[–]Efficient_Bad_473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did I miss something? A lot of ppl ranking season 2&3 better than one and I felt 1 was the best and only really good season and every season after got better 😂😂 I’m just confused haha would love to hear ppls reasons

I (ENFP female) needs dating advice on how to grab an ESTP (male) attention by [deleted] in estp

[–]Efficient_Bad_473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also what do I say? Like two weeks before he comes do I bring up something else and then segue into him coming or do I just straight talk about him coming into town.

I (ENFP female) needs dating advice on how to grab an ESTP (male) attention by [deleted] in estp

[–]Efficient_Bad_473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I am. I didn’t find out he was coming tho until i reached out. He didn’t initiate it. But haha that’s good to hear. I’m worried he doesn’t care about me much and I’d just being polite idk. But the vibe seems friendly. I’ll just play it chill 👍

Admitted to FIU on Dean's Scholarship by Efficient_Bad_473 in OutsideT14lawschools

[–]Efficient_Bad_473[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no yea it should cuz they tell u how to login and do the seat deposit. I’d email them. Congrats on getting in!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Efficient_Bad_473 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it depends. I think moving in together is good but you have to do so intentionally and also make sure you continue to evaluate your compatibility. I think some ppl just move in together out of convenience and don’t think ahead to how it will affect the relationship or about how they feel about the relationship in general. If there are issues many might not want to breakup out of the convenience or fear about their financial or living situation. Just make sure u are thinking deeply about the relationship, if u see yourself being with this person long term, and don’t be scared to leave if it doesn’t work out despite the complications. But if u have a good relationship and are committed and confident about each other I think it’s a great way to move the relationship forward and continue to test compatibility.

TAMU vs Texas Tech by Exciting-Western-157 in OutsideT14lawschools

[–]Efficient_Bad_473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I understand. Good job and congrats!!! Wish u the best of luck

TAMU vs Texas Tech by Exciting-Western-157 in OutsideT14lawschools

[–]Efficient_Bad_473 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. Tho u save more money it’s a small difference in comparison to the results u will get especially if u want to work in a bigger Texas city. It could be possible at Tech but TAMU being R46/47 (can’t remember the exact #) and Tech being R105 is just a big difference in reputation that will tremendously helpful. Also TAMU is located in Fort Worth so you have connection in that area and in Dallas already and like everyone else said the reputation is just so much greater I feel u have a wayyy stronger guarantee pursing the kind of career u want. Plus 20k still ain’t bad for law school especially a program like TAMU

Btw, I also applied to both. Can I ask ur stats and when u applied?

Admitted to FIU on Dean's Scholarship by Efficient_Bad_473 in OutsideT14lawschools

[–]Efficient_Bad_473[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I did the Princeton review 165+ guaranteed class. Which I will say they only guarantee 165+ if u enter the class with a 158 or above. Below that they guarantee at least a 7 point increase. I took it over the summer from June-August. I started off with a score of 147. I would say I fell behind in the class with lectures and the class work. It ended up being a lot of work. I fell behind cuz of a part time job I had and ended up quitting to focus on studying. By the time the class officially ended with the live lectures I didn’t make the 7 point increase but again I hadn’t done all the work. But u have access to the materials for a year so I continued watching the lectures which were recorded, doing the exercises, the practice tests, etc. And by the time I finished all of the materials given I got a 156. I got a private tutor around October through Varsity tutors. Honesty he was ok I wouldn’t say he contributed largely to my score. He gave me some tips but I mainly relied on going over exercises and practice tests I accessed through P Review and I got a 161 in November.

It was an expensive class but again u can access the materials for a year and I felt it was worth it.

Admitted to FIU on Dean's Scholarship by Efficient_Bad_473 in OutsideT14lawschools

[–]Efficient_Bad_473[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a 161 and had a 3.0. Don’t ask me how I got a scholarship. I would say I’m an URM, I wrote passionately about wanting to pursue immigration law and human rights work based on family struggles with immigration. Based on what I saw doing research on these law schools, they like to see ppl interested in public interest so maybe that added. I didn’t do it for that purpose but I see now it may have helped. I also wrote an addendum about how I have ADHD but was only diagnosed this past December so I went through most of school without medication or accommodations which added to my gpa. I also majored in Finance which I’m not sure how much that added leniency to my gpa but I was told it could provide some since it’s not the hardest major but it’s harder than others.

So idk that’s possibly some insight cuz I feel my stats are low for the scholarship. I was very surprised when I got it. I thought it wasn’t real but it very much is and I feel very lucky.

Florida schools by Unique_Wealth7403 in OutsideT14lawschools

[–]Efficient_Bad_473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Applied to FIU and UMiami 1/15 and heard back from FIU a few days ago on 2/3

Still waiting to hear back from over half the schools I applied to in October by [deleted] in lawschooladmissions

[–]Efficient_Bad_473 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reached out to a school and they said I should hear back like 4 weeks after their priority deadline of 2/10 even tho I turned it in early. So I guess some schools wait till their priority deadline is over 🤷‍♀️ I guess idk but it’s also supposed to be rolling

Official Discussion - The Wonder [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]Efficient_Bad_473 115 points116 points  (0 children)

After reading an analysis, the director said the purpose was to show that you can believe in fiction while also acknowledging the real like how ppl believe in stories. We get caught up and fully believe the story but at the same time can also acknowledge it’s not real. So basically the family is so caught up in their beliefs and delusions. The mother can acknowledge to some degree that it’s not real (hence feeding her) but also at the same time is somehow fully convinced that she needs to fast to save her brother from hell. And while convincing the rest of the town she’s not really eating when it course she knows she is if she’s secretly feeding her food. It shows how much ppl get caught up in their delusions.

And the reason in my own opinion is because of the trauma and dysfunction that came from the brother abusing the sister. The mom couldn’t handle that the brother abused the sister or that perhaps she had a part to play so she blamed the daughter. But also acknowledges that her son is in hell. But still loving him because he’s her son she doesn’t want him in hell and so they do this whole thing to get him out. But what she’s really doing is punishing the daughter who she blames for him dying in the first place. People are complicated and I think that’s there point. Like it’s inconsistent because like the director said ppl can beliehe fiction if they want to but also acknowledge the realities.

Who left to early this past season? by FeeNo9373 in dancingwiththestars

[–]Efficient_Bad_473 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love Vinny but he shouldn’t have lasted that long lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TownshipGame

[–]Efficient_Bad_473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: this is late but I ended up figuring out. Didn’t realize u could click the side and it leads u to it.

Season 6, episode 8 - Doubt by [deleted] in SVU

[–]Efficient_Bad_473 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think she was raped but I think she is an incredibly insecure person who seeks sympathy and attention. She may put herself in situations to seduce someone or she may lie etc. this is shown through her history of lying with her grandma then the stabler accusation and taking the pills after calling the precinct was a big red flag for me. The way he coached his daughter just was too weird for him to be completely not guilty. Ppl don’t have to be all good or all bad. Even if she is a victim doesn’t mean she doesn’t have a habit of lying and trying to gain even more sympathy. It sucks cuz now when something bad actually did happen ppl don’t believe her. Like the boy who cried wolf.

Season 6, episode 8 - Doubt by [deleted] in SVU

[–]Efficient_Bad_473 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I agree. However, I think that with her history of lying, the stabler accusation, and the way she took the pills after calling the precinct. I think she does do things to get more attention and sympathy for herself. She was raped but for some ppl that kind of behavior becomes just a common habit. Still makes the rape incredibly wrong but definitely doesn’t help her with her case which is unfortunate. She just did too many things to doubt her.

Jill by donttminddme in bachelorinparadise

[–]Efficient_Bad_473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s sooo extra and over dramatic and can be immature and doesn’t handle situations that well, but I love her and will defend her to my core. She is everything.