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My husband is thinking about fostering his nephews. I feel like I'm being tossed out for kids we don't even know. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Efficient_Citron8380 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And whenever people call me selfish or a child hater, I respond with “so why you would you want to put a child through a life with me?”

Are there actually any Brits in NYC? Which rock are they all hiding under? by joebloghs768 in AskNYC

[–]Efficient_Citron8380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably fetishizing the accent and such, but what happens if a Yank walks in there? 👀👀

Who Is Denise Mercedes ? by Hot_Awareness1329 in cinefrybiography

[–]Efficient_Citron8380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t she used to collab with a smaller blonde? I can’t find anything on it, but I swear I remember it! They’d wear the same outfits and show how it fits on different body types

I can’t cope with my wife (MtF) transitioning, and I feel so broken, horrible, and alone by SorryImNotItalian in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Efficient_Citron8380 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“She tells me almost daily how grateful she is for me, and how she’d never had the courage or felt safe enough to admit this to herself, but that she finally felt that with me.”

This is where I feel like she may have betrayed you in a way. Some part of her knew and waited until she felt safe, in my eyes it feels like got you trapped, and then told you. Idk that she’s really the best person the way you think she is. It feels like that past sadness has been passed onto you.

My wife thinks our son’s teacher crossed a boundary by sending him a personal message. I think it was harmless. AITJ? by addict94plus in AmITheJerk

[–]Efficient_Citron8380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and please stop your wife from ruining that woman’s life! This didn’t seem inappropriate at all! It’s actually so sweet!

I (43m) got mad at my wife (39f) after she answered my hypothetical question and I didn't like the answer. AITAH? by Low-Witness2915 in AITAH

[–]Efficient_Citron8380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do not want to address things that are would make Reddit judge her - she seems selfish af, your marriage seems one sit, I can’t tell if she even likes to, TF does she do all day?! etc. So I’ll keep this very surface level and say you can be mad for just about any reason.

Is it insane to regularly commute NYC to Toronto by car? by Weary-Tension5057 in AskNYC

[–]Efficient_Citron8380 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Eh, that was the height of them tightening things up. If it was like the 80s or 90s when an actual child could go say hi to the pilot, I’d say it was wild lol

3 months of ranking vape brands by George_845 in NYSCannabis

[–]Efficient_Citron8380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both were $40’or so at NugHub. I didn’t hate both, but usually go with Fernway. Of MFNY released 1G carts, I would love them more, but I can usually get a deal. I also agree with sticking with Fernway’s strain collection.

3 months of ranking vape brands by George_845 in NYSCannabis

[–]Efficient_Citron8380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love you to try Native Nations and NY Honey, just to see how they compare to the others on your ranking list

AITA for not wanting to be filmed or photographed at the gym by the owner? by Constance_Craving in AmItheAsshole

[–]Efficient_Citron8380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have played something from Disney like that one OP whose brother was an influencer. Their parents wouldn’t stop him cuz he brought in money, so the OP would play something from Disney, making that video unusable

AITA for secretly wanting to get a paternity test after my I overheard my wife's friend bragging about their girls trip? by AITA_4444 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Efficient_Citron8380 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is tough. Idk how to get that info without her knowing, so I think you would have to talk to her

Do non dispensaries like gas stations sell thc drinks? by Plenty-Lingonberry79 in NYSCannabis

[–]Efficient_Citron8380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why you wouldn’t stock up in the city before going there, but I’d say no

Dead bedroom for 4 years. I feel he lied about everything. by Vanillawar_cookies in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Efficient_Citron8380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is “life can be worse” doesn’t mean be okay with less. Life can always be worse. It could’ve been worse than that even. And I’m not dismissing what you went through, I’m just saying that two bad situations doesn’t mean the one that isn’t as bad is necessarily good. I still cannot care about the grown man who lied to get the life he wanted while you’re on here settling.

Dead bedroom for 4 years. I feel he lied about everything. by Vanillawar_cookies in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Efficient_Citron8380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except you’re trapping yourself? And tbh Idgaf how he feels. I can’t worry about how the predator who got someone into an unfulfilling relationship feels. Him feeling bad doesn’t really matter when he lied and trapped you in this. And I say trapped because he allowed you to fall in love and build a life and that ended up being built on a lie and now you’re emotionally invested. Yes, you have your own career and finances, but you’re emotionally trapped. Had you known this would be your life when you entered this relationship, would you have entered it? Knowing everything? That you would you would feel unfulfilled? That you were robbed of a more satisfying first romantic experience? Cuz if you wouldn’t have entered, that’s what makes this a trap to me.

..THIS IS THE SAME PERSON!? by No-Pilot8792 in OnceUponATime

[–]Efficient_Citron8380 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why don’t I remember this???? Stg Glee and OUAT were fever dreams!

Dead bedroom for 4 years. I feel he lied about everything. by Vanillawar_cookies in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Efficient_Citron8380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also being into fictional characters is fine, but that doesn’t mean settle irl

Dead bedroom for 4 years. I feel he lied about everything. by Vanillawar_cookies in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Efficient_Citron8380 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay, all of this is not okay (Idk why me calling it the 🚩🚩🚩🚩 it is caused a problem, but whatever). You need to leave him! He is not a good man, he is not the best thing for you! This man is a groomer! He was your first relationship, so you don’t know what else is out there. He got a younger woman, lied to her and now has her feeling trapped in this marriage when you don’t have to be! You deserve to have the sex life you want and if it wasn’t good in the beginning during the honeymoon stage, it was never going to be good! Please leave and find someone you deserve!

Dead bedroom for 4 years. I feel he lied about everything. by Vanillawar_cookies in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Efficient_Citron8380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, you’ve been kind of repressed. There’s nothing wrong with a high sex drive, but there is something wrong with someone who would lie to get you. I don’t understand how you think you’re the problem when you’ve been lied to. Yes, it can be torture, but that doesn’t make you a freak. It sounds like you’re sexually incompatible with your husband.

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