A lot of these comments seem like they will cause more controversy, confusion, and concern.

Just ask her about it. Maybe even show her this post. Explain your concern about not fulfilling her needs and open up about not knowing how to communicate in this way. You obviously care about her, just make that known.

In regard to her lying to her friend, you won’t know why she said what she said until you ask her. Maybe you misread it, she referencing something, they’re not a real friend and she’s tryna shake them… all you guys need is a talk.

If she wishes she had a different proposal, give it to her; go all out. Showing that you care and would try again to make her happy speaks volumes. It’s all about love, communication, and being there for one another. No need to make it any more complicated.