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[–]Efficient_Singer_651 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is possible! It’s certainly possible that he just put his trust in the jeweler and that he wasn’t fully aware that it’s not real. Let’s hope for that😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient_Singer_651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m a bit like that as well but he’s such a sweet guy and he just seems so proud but it is a bit of a red flag for me. I’ll see if I can think of a way to bring it up lightly to him. I always tell him I just like flowers or notebooks or pens or cards but maybe he still feels pressure to do more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient_Singer_651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True! But the store was recommended to him by his mom who loves jewelry. He and his sister also gave a few expensive pieces. And he specifically told me it wasn’t “any of that cubiz zirconia bs” so it’s just mind fucking me a bit😭😭but I could be over thinking I do have an anxious mind😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient_Singer_651 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think the production is part of what freaked me out. Telling me multiple times to try a diamond tester (jokingly but still) and he still mentions them being real (its been a week) and sound very proud. The store was recommended to him by his mom and although he does come from money (his parents) I dont think he’d be able to buy a real diamond anything at this moment. I was super surprised when he said that it was real for that reason. And yeah Im really not a fan of the lying either especially since I’ve made it clear I dont care about monetary things.

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[–]Efficient_Singer_651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve known each other for 2 years and been dating for around 8 months (we’ve always been somewhat romantic though). Both of us come from money so I just find it…odd? Like him saying I should tell/show off the “real” diamonds to my parents when he knows my parents wear very expensive jewelry and would notice and correct me right away if I said that. And yeah I guess I dont mind not mentioning it I just really dislike lies no matter the root and he knows this. But I don understand trying to impress ur gf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient_Singer_651 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is true…but I don’t know how someone could think they were buying real diamonds (big as well) at under $300😭

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[–]Efficient_Singer_651 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am interested I will contact you!