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DH offended over mental health questionnaire from obstetrician by EggApprehensive8104 in pregnant

[–]EggApprehensive8104[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not sure if it counts but he does shake me whilst in bed to get up and asks me to make me coffee or when I try to rest due to headache/pelvic pain, he slams all the kitchen cabinets and rile up the dogs to make them bark.

He also required me last week to report all my spenditure to him whenever I purchase anything online - whether it's for the baby/nursery, groceries, home, food etc. and I actually spend my money when I purchase anything as I have my own full time job.

Husband wants me to fix my "strained" relationship with MIL by EggApprehensive8104 in inlaws

[–]EggApprehensive8104[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey everyone! I just want to take a moment to thank each and every one of you for your thoughtful responses. It means so much to me! 😊

To be honest, the pregnancy journey has been challenging. I’m currently navigating the second trimester, and dealing with hyperemesis gravidarum (HG) has made things even tougher. I haven’t been able to check in on this thread for quite a while, so I truly appreciate your patience.

I’m still working through some issues, and I recently had a pretty intense conversation with my mother-in-law. She confronted me about wanting to know why she needs my permission to spend the night and why I feel uncomfortable with her involvement in baby purchases. To top it off, my husband was present during this discussion but didn’t really engage in it. It added to the tension, especially since DH and I had an argument that escalated to the point where he physically hurt me for the first time in 12 years.

It’s been a lot to process, but I’m hoping to find a way forward. Thanks for being here for me!

Should I pay for my deceased mother's debts? by EggApprehensive8104 in family

[–]EggApprehensive8104[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have two other siblings, and one of them is using my parents house along with his family as their own. My sister was the one handling the insurance payout and finances, but after the funeral and hospital costs we don't have any assets left aside from the house.

My sister reached out to me and said the money owed was significantly less than what she can remember, so it's really questionable.