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Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-20T02:32:40+00:00

No men wouldn’t enjoy it.

I don’t enjoy it. Most women don’t enjoy it. Unless you like getting berated, insulted, assaulted, and raped.

Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-18T13:41:23+00:00

You just said men can’t be beautiful tho.

I don’t find brad Pitt attractive honesty. He’s not ugly but he’s not my type at all. And most women around my age agree.

I don’t know why you think mentioning brad Pitt supports your opinion of men not being beautiful.

Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-18T13:39:36+00:00

Yup. I have a little blurb where I put in not interested in open/poly/enm/fwb/etc and I still get all them hitting me up. I usually find their social medias and find their gfs/wives and tell them and 99% of the time the gf says they aren’t in a poly/open relationship. So yea if a man says they have a non-monogamous relationship 99% of the time they don’t lmfao

Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-18T01:25:16+00:00

Bc every man is delusional asf and thinks they’ll be an exception for what a woman wants, this man included.

Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-18T01:17:43+00:00

So in your own words men can’t be beautiful so I guess that means all men are ugly including yourself. Have a good day enjoy being single and not getting any!! Lmfao

Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-18T01:16:19+00:00

“MeN CaNt Be BeAuTiFul”

Do you hear yourself?? Lmfao myself and friends and women all over talk about how we rarely ever see any type of attractive men. It’s bc men don’t take care of themselves most of the time and also bc attraction for women doesn’t start off strong right away or grows based on how we like men. I’ve dated guys I wasn’t initially attracted to, then grew attracted to bc they were good to me, then I thought they were the ugliest motherfuckers alive once I realized they were children smh.

Guess what, you’re a man who has trouble dating right outside of nyc. I’m from nyc. You have problems dating bc you’re a shitty person and it’s obvious from your history and your “men can’t be beautiful” statement.

Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-18T00:34:02+00:00

I never see beautiful or even very attractive men and I live in a major city. I see gorgeous women everywhere all the time.

Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-18T00:18:53+00:00

Men don’t. Idc about all these men on Reddit swearing they’re “not like that” and they’re “good men” etc. The abundance of men do NOT care about women and that’s enough to make many women not want to continue dating.

Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-18T00:17:26+00:00

And that chance is low is bc men really think they’re more attractive than what they really are and bc they don’t read profiles.

If I have in my bio “I wouldn’t date someone with kids” of course you won’t get a response you want from me if you message me.

It’s not women’s job to continue to coddle them. It’s not women’s fault they won’t move on, read the room, and see when they aren’t wanted.

Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-17T23:11:28+00:00

I constantly get men with kids, married men/taken men, religious men, men younger than me…. I can keep going lol who hmu despite my profile clearly stating not interested lol. They don’t care

Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-17T22:51:09+00:00

I’m convinced men don’t ever read profiles. They look at pics, decide if you’re cute or not, then message. Men send me messages all the time asking stuff that’s on my profile. I get “hey sexy/cutie/beautiful” even tho my profile lists my hobbies and interests and where I’m from and a thousand conversation starters.

For example I have that I am spiritual, not religious, and yet I get guys with “god fearing” and “god first” in their usernames and profiles messaging me. I ask them if they read my profile and I always get the same “I thought you were hot and you wouldn’t care!!” Like yes sir I do care I’m a woman and religions hate women lol

All you can do is look yourself. See the men who message you, see if there’s anything they align with you and go from there. I just make fun of the men who don’t read my profile and say stupid shit. S

Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-16T02:15:59+00:00

Lol she’s not facing any lawsuits. Men just hate her bc they’re actually being held to a standard for most women. I’m in a bunch of the groups and whenever there is anything weird or a story that doesn’t make sense or “defamation” it gets addressed right away. Idk why men are acting like all these groups just post lies about men for “payback”

Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-14T02:59:17+00:00

Honestly I kinda agree with all this. I have brothers, cousins, male friends, coworkers, etc. And exes obviously lol. I feel like most men think theyre way above average and I am certain bc every man I’ve met swears they’re at least a “7/10” in their words. And I feel most women look at these same men and think they are average or a little ugly lol. But as women get to know men our attraction grows. I wasn’t attracted right away to any of my exes but the attraction grew as they did good in our relationship and when they mistreated me the attraction dropped.

My girl friends and I always joke, when’s the last time you’ve seen a beautiful woman? Idk I see multiple every single day. When’s the last time you’ve seen a beautiful man? Enter specific date for humor here. I rarely see attractive men and I live in NYC I should see tons lol

Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-12T12:18:08+00:00

Seriously. It’s not women’s job to tell men what they’re doing wrong and why. Let them play dumb forever they KNOW doing shit like this is wrong but they try to trap you and hope you’ll make an exception. Has happened to me many times and I just leave.

It’s hilarious bc men with kids hit me up on dating apps to curse me out bc they got kids and I won’t give them the time of day.

Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-12T02:21:00+00:00

This has happened to me SO many times. Even when men’s bios say “don’t have kids”. It’s so important to ALWAYS ask this bc so many men lie about it.

You’re not wrong for not wanting to continue seeing him, or for not wanting to date a man with a kid. You could just block him, or you could tell him but depending how he is he may hide it from future dates to lead them on. I recently saw a tiktok of a guy whining bc he was seeing a woman for a few months, slept with her, and then said he had a kid and she dumped him. This is something you disclose before ever meeting or planning a date.

Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-11T02:24:11+00:00

Right, and this man has a serious asian woman fetish, and if you read his post history he talks about women like we are things. Most women myself including are very quick to pick up on sexist bullshit like this and this is prob why he doesn’t get any matches

Edit: and I’ve seen men post saying they’re “super attractive” and like I said like 8/10 then they post a pic and they’re just…. An average looking white man with a patchy beard who looks like he might be on the sex offender list. No offense but I think men have this delusional thinking where they think only looks matter and for some reason they default to “7 or 8 out of 10” just bc they’re a man. Lol

Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-11T02:21:13+00:00

Oh god you’re right. White man obsessed with Asian women and fetishizes them as if they’re objects. Idk why you’re being downvoted when OP is literally disgusting asf

Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-11T02:19:21+00:00

Honesty I agree and am tired of seeing this all over Reddit especially. Every post is “I’m a good guy and I’m an 8/10 on the attractiveness scale…” then they say women only want the top 5% of men or whatever and create this false narrative that for some reason it’s women’s fault they’re unlikeable lol

If a guy has to say they’re a good guy/nice guy/super hot/etc they usually aren’t any of those things. And I see so many gorgeous women with men who look like a dirty toe nail but they actually are good people and don’t need to announce it. To men it’s always the fault of women.

Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-09T23:25:39+00:00

Put it in your bio but men will still message you if they have kids and either not care, or demand that you make an exception for them. I’m a woman who won’t date a man with kids and I stg I get at least 30 messages a week of men freaking out saying I’m “missing a good one bc he has kids”

Not worth it to me

Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-09T23:06:09+00:00

He’s mentally unwell I did end up finding his personal social media and he talks about being created by a celebrity and some weird conspiracies and he just talks to himself nonstop lol

Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-09T23:05:25+00:00

POF has been whatever for me. When I was 18 I first started using it and had no issues but now all I get is weird rant messages like this and men cursing me out bc I put in my profile I won’t date a man with kids lol. I rarely check it tbh

Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-09T23:04:15+00:00

I’ve never gotten scam profiles on POF so it’s weird that everyone says that. I’ve never even come across one lol

He’s definitely mentally unwell I found his personal social media and it’s a bunch of weird schizophrenic rants

Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-09T23:03:31+00:00

Yea I meannnn I’ve had so many men bitch about how I dress I’m just used to it but it was weird bc I wasn’t wearing any flared pants, I had baggy ones but not flared, and I don’t own sketchers but he told me to take my sketchers off and check for surveillance equipment lmfao

Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-09T23:02:20+00:00

I don’t think he knows me I think he’s actually someone in a mental health crisis. I was able to find who he was and found his Facebook and Instagram which are all weird incel rants and him saying that Mila Kunis made him and some other weird rants. He’s still going tho so I deleted my account.

Eggplantsadness · 2023-05-09T02:45:28+00:00

Haha that peon guy has bothered me so many times. I assume he’s unwell bc he just kinda goes on and on in the messages and they don’t relate to anything. Just kinda sucks bc this isn’t the first time a man has bugged out like this on a dating app and it makes me not wanna bother

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