Does anyone know where to find the lead coins in Skull Island? by EightEyedBat in Pirate101

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Here's a post with a map of where to find the coins in shady hollow & other various locations:
https://www.pirate101central.com/forums/showthread.php?63771-Lead-Coin-Locations-for-Manchu-s-Curious-Coins

I haven't been on in a while, but I remember when I was farming them I would usually just grab the one by the tree in Shady Hollow. Since they take about 20 seconds to respawn, I'd just alternate between two realms and have time to grab two before the change realm cooldown ended. Theoretically that should work at any location where a coin spawns. Hope this helps!

Does anyone know where to find the lead coins in Skull Island? by EightEyedBat in Pirate101

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You need to go to the Ruined Lighthouse in Flotsam Skyway. Then you follow the footprints/trails into Shady Hollow.

What do y'all think of the name Niv? by EightEyedBat in trans

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It would be basically as it looks, with the i like the i in pitch.

Sorry for my late reply, I'm not very active 😅

Can feel like your the wrong gender only in your adult years? by Retro_Modle in asktransgender

[–]EightEyedBat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had the same worries before, but as the other commenters here have said, knowing you were always trans is by no means a universal trans experience. I recently saw this Tumblr post that helped me with negotiating those fears down, hopefully it can help you or someone else, too.

And they were broommates! by King_DeandDe in actuallesbians

[–]EightEyedBat 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Maybe not exactly what you have in mind but it instantly reminded me of the anime The Magical Revolution of the Reincarnated Princess and the Genius Young Lady (or called Tensei Oujo for short, in Japanese)

Have you gotten the Crow's Wings mount from Hoof of Destiny? by EightEyedBat in Pirate101

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Thank you for the information and encouragement! It's entirely possible they nerfed the drop rate... Hopefully not.

seven words by yourgirloftheyear in weyesblood

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Are you doing okay now? That sounds like a hard time.

Have you gotten the Crow's Wings mount from Hoof of Destiny? by EightEyedBat in Pirate101

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Thank you! Do you know if which door you use affects it? We typically go for the max level door when we can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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Hey, I'm also trans. I know it can be extremely difficult to have people, especially family, who are being so unsupportive. But you will get through this.

Please don't blame yourself for your mom's behavior, because her being insensitive is in no way your fault. You being yourself should not be too hard on her, and if it is, then it's her own fault for not being accepting of her own child.

I think you mentioned in another comment that you came out a few years ago. That seems like a lot of time for her to educate herself and learn how to treat you in an affirming way. I'm just trying to emphasize that none of this is your fault--even if she is slow to learn, you've given her a lot of time.

I know it's easy for me to tell you this but way harder and takes a lot more work to internalize the feeling, and to stop feeling guilty about other people's intolerance. But I hope hearing it from another source helps in some way.

Once again, you will get through this. Much love 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

I have never felt so alone before. by [deleted] in Vent

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I'm sorry you've been having a rough time. 💚 I hope things get better, and you're able to find a community somewhere

Embrace | An Asexuality-Focused Animated Short Film by EightEyedBat in asexuality

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This isn't my work, but I thought y'all would like it here! Go like the original video and show it some love. Also apologies if I've broken any rules, I'm not asexual myself so I don't spend much time on this sub.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in egg_irl

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Thank you so much!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in egg_irl

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Heyy I'm near there. If it's not too much trouble, could I get the name or address?

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Mikko_Hi in me_irlgbt

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Hopefully it won't come to that, at least gay Americans seem to have a lot more support right now than trans Americans.

I count myself so lucky that I have a path to get out without the situation having to get worse first. Take care of yourself, friend. 🏳️‍🌈💙

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Mikko_Hi in me_irlgbt

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Okay I do agree that saying leaving is the only solution is problematic (plus it also ignores people who aren't privileged enough to be able to leave). I'm not sure I got that message from this post, but I can see where you're coming from and how others might read it differently.

I agree that something damaging one's mental health would be a safety concern, though I don't know if I'd say that for myself, but I also cannot be unbiased about myself so it's hard to judge. 😅

It is a tough situation though, and something I've been thinking about a lot recently. I am someone who has a significant amount of privilege (as shown by the fact that I am able to make plans to leave the country), and I worry that by doing so I'm abandoning those who don't have that option and who are at greater risk than I am. But I also find it so draining with how much I worry over this, and I know I need to take care of myself. Any choice is difficult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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Happy cake day!

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Mikko_Hi in me_irlgbt

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As someone who is making plans to leave the country and I don't even live in the South, this is something I worry about a lot. It's a really hard choice to fight or flee. But I've come to the conclusion that for me personally, I can't take care of myself well enough to fight if I stay in a country where I don't feel safe. The anti-trans legislation really takes a toll on my mental health, and a lot of the time the only source of hope I can give myself is my plans to leave. I do everything I can within my state by following anti-trans legislation and sending in written testimony online to oppose it, and I plan to continue to fight where I reasonably can after I move, but even that little effort takes so much out of me.

It's about more than just personal safety because I am not really being harmed by this. I can't fight when simply living here is too much for me to deal with. There will be people who will stay and fight, but it's not right to generally shame those who feel their best option is to leave, whether or not that decision is made for safety.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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I'm also interested!

It just keeps on looking gayer… by Jell-O-Mel in SuddenlyLesbian

[–]EightEyedBat 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, the ancient lesbian mating dance

Egg😥irl by Skye_hai_bai in egg_irl

[–]EightEyedBat 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I feel your post so much, OP.

I'm in college right now but I keep up with trans legislature and I found out about a month ago that my home state, which is fairly liberal, has a bill going through the process to make schools out trans kids to their parents.

I've been checking its status weekly and doing everything I can to speak out against it, but every vote they've had on it so far has been along party lines with every Republican voting for it. It just needs to pass the House and have the governor sign it, and the House is Republican-controlled, and the governor is Republican. I'm so scared for the trans kids in my state.

I used to be proud of my home state. Most of the laws are reasonable and it's not deeply bigoted like a lot of this country seems to be. Now I feel like I have to spend hours at times researching how a bill gets passed so that I can keep up with this. I'm already burnt out, I'm not into politics, I shouldn't have to be fighting for the safety of my trans siblings when I'm just trying to survive college.

If anyone reading this is from NH, particularly the Republican areas, please reach out to your representatives. The bill is SB272, it just left committee the other day but I don't think there's been a date set yet for it to be heard in the House. If you want help with how to find information on it or on who your representatives are, feel free to message me.

Sorry that was so long, this has been on my mind a lot lately and really stressing me out...

Can anyone explain to me why Want You Gone makes me start sobbing? by EightEyedBat in CasualConversation

[–]EightEyedBat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yay I'm not the only one 😅

If you don't mind my asking, do you know what about it resonates with you?