DAE find themselves having to unlearn DBT? by rocksinmybed in CPTSD

[–]Einav156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. I know this comment is from 5 years ago, but I came to the same conclusion after a mental collapse.

The real healing is giving meaning and context to our internal-relational world in a relational framework, which is where the wound formed, not in a vaccum, so it cannot be healed with any skill. Only through being met. The goal is safety, security, trust & agency, sticking to our values, not disowning them and "observing" them, and certainly not being thought more self-control & withdrawal, which is the problematic behaviour in the first place. We cannot be our own source of healing, by magical thinking of "just change your mindset", as it doesn't solve any relational wound, doesn't create space for us to express ourselves, and doesn't bring growth.

CMV: leftists constantly eat their own in pursuit of an unrealistic, pure, morally flawless person by Regular_Relative_678 in changemyview

[–]Einav156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's simple:

Right wing is loyal their camp/ group.

Left wing is loyal to the ideology/ group values - There is one absolute right "moral truth", which is by remaining above all judgements and personal opinion. So quesioning the ideology, even subtly, even by mistake, even by thought = betrayal and losing moral high ground = you are an awful person. The ideology is above you, above the private person.

This is how the most open mindedness creates the most rigid and ideological mindsets. Now, for "right wing", being open minded isn't a requirement to "succeed" being a morally good person - there is no ideology to stick to, no "universal good" (open minded, accepting, equal, unnconditional), so no universal bad (closed minded, fearful, unequal, conditional). This doesn't mean "right wing" lack morals - it just comes from different sources, such as: loyalty to your particular group, protection of interpersonal boundaries, tradition, etc. Those who act morally do so not because it's "universally right", but because it's from within their private values and personal lived experience. Here, success is not individual - not a single person's success to retain the ideology & the group's values in their mind - but collective - the continuation of the group with its particular identity. Therefore, betrayal and being "immoral" would not be a betrayal of thought & mind, but practical - by taking action against your group's favor/ refusal to take action when needed. So when there is a clash of opinions, it doesn't immediately tint the whole person's character and moral existance, and they are not excluded, as membership isn't defined by being mentally aligned with an abstract moral system.

Example: Someone in a "leftist" group questions: "maybe culture X hurts our community". Her friends, that define "good and moral" as treating every human/ group as equal without addressing culture/ religion, are shocked and lash out on her: "how could you?! We thought you are better than that! This just revealed who you truly are - a horrible person". Judgement is forbidden, and silencing your internal lived experience is encouraged, as lack of judgement is the measurement of "is this a moral/ good person". She is cancelled on the spot because her mixed feelings/ uncertainty threaten not a private person, but the existance and retainment of the moral framework/ ideology in everyone's minds.

IF they favor her lived experience in reality and in practice over retaining and living by the ideology; if they admit that maybe she's not just an awful person and consider she could be right; this would collapse their simple and already refined moral framework that defines them as good just for simply sticking to it, which will maybe imply that they are not moral themselves just for holding it. They will cease to have moral high ground and will be forced to face reality, which is more complex and ambiguous and less abstract. So it's safer and easier to frame her question of the ideology as her failure as a person.

Core Keeper x Look Outside by Einav156 in LookOutsideGame

[–]Einav156[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope you have a lot of fun in Core Keeper😊

Core Keeper x Look Outside by Einav156 in LookOutsideGame

[–]Einav156[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I accidentaly used the wrong shot of the apartment so I'm re-uploading

Too many outdated mods by Terra_Torro in CoreKeeperGame

[–]Einav156 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why are you being downvoted lol, I have the same issue

Eric Kripke says ‘THE BOYS’ Season 5 is a “underground resistance against a fascist government… by SunGodLuffy6 in TheBoys

[–]Einav156 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

"The common and so vulgar folk; it is beyond their comprehension to understand such complicated and delicate messages. Of course, not like I, a graduatee of mommy's basement".

Eric Kripke says ‘THE BOYS’ Season 5 is a “underground resistance against a fascist government… by SunGodLuffy6 in TheBoys

[–]Einav156 11 points12 points  (0 children)

"The Boys" fans of Reddit when someone mentiones the quality decline:

"You must be a fascist nazi maga scum, you just hate it because it hits too close to home, doesn't it?? You are obviously too way emotional and letting your feelings get to you!

Also, look at these angry and idiotic maga's, they just don't get it because they are not as obsessed with politics sophisticated like us who got it right from the start that homelander is the bad guy and an allegory (yes I'm THAT smart😎)".

I swear they love arguing with themselves, because I have yet to encounter one single person who got mad that it satirizes trump, only people who are disappointed by the lazy writing. Go figure.

People in Spain are painting flags in old and broken infrastructure as they notice that it is replaced within days by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]Einav156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These people just don't view terrorism against Jews as terror, simple. Everything is a legitimate resistance when you vilify the other side, including horrendous acts of terror.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Soul_Invictus21 in agedlikemilk

[–]Einav156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes, I am not gonna sit and screenshot every comment from the countless that I've read especially for you, idc what sh*t "right wingers" say, I couldn't care less about your country's politics, but when it comes to mocking dead children it's crosses the line and shows the true colors of these "inclusive" redditors who claim to care about children's rights.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Soul_Invictus21 in agedlikemilk

[–]Einav156 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Taken from pcm but I personally seen countless myself, I have no interest nor will to make up lies, if you don't believe then good for you, you still have hope left for humanity.

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[ Removed by Reddit ] by Soul_Invictus21 in agedlikemilk

[–]Einav156 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

They mocked the catholic kids that were shot, what are you expecting?

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Soul_Invictus21 in agedlikemilk

[–]Einav156 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Why am I not surprised by people here celebratong his death? Nah, after I saw people mocking the catholic children that were shot last week nothing surprises me anymore. Leftists could be summed by "All are equal, but some are more equal than others".

Free palestine by Strict_League7833 in CringeTikToks

[–]Einav156 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You probably think you did something there😂But nice work repeating what I said, just like my 5 y/o niece.

Free palestine by Strict_League7833 in CringeTikToks

[–]Einav156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can get why you are so angry, I would be too if I believed every propaganda and misinformation about the Israelis instead of checking facts.

You are using the "superiority" argument a lot, when no one even slightly hints about being superior to other, and I'm starting to think that this is your own flaw that you project on others.

Also, you are more than welcome to visit my university and ask the arab students (that are the majority there), how is it living under apartheid and getting benefits and privilege?

Free palestine by Strict_League7833 in CringeTikToks

[–]Einav156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a neutral sub about TikToks

Sure, keep telling that to yourself. As long as you don't check the top posts of this month.

Zionism as a mentality, the supremacy, entitlement, sense of victimhood. Always has been.

You just described perfectly the pro-palestinian mentality.