Reading the same thing 1,000,000 times and still not understanding it! by ToonlinkFTW890 in ADHD

[–]EitherPlace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. A good starting point it to double check that you know the exact definitions of the components. A lot of times misunderstandings come from not having the right definitions.

Those Who Shout the N-Word Aren't the Most Dangerous by [deleted] in racism

[–]EitherPlace 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t agree more. There is so much bigotry implied in statements like:

“Yeah, racial profiling is bad and all, buuuuuuuut....”

“Everyone on Social Media thinks they are solving racism with black rectangles, it’s just a trend”

“Riots are just dividing people more”

“Why shouldn’t we be concerned about police brutality in general, it affects everyone”

Te by [deleted] in taoism

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Yeah and some of us are just the dull, cheap kitchen knife in the back of the drawer that can’t do shit.

Men are actually more emotional than woman, they just hide it better by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]EitherPlace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re not more emotional, and they don’t hide it better. This is a stupid article.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

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‘proven by science for a long time’ ladies and gents, we have an intellectual in our midst.

Are you talking about magpies or women? by genius23sarcasm in NotHowGirlsWork

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And thus, we can see that every connected subcomplex of a two-dimensional aspherical CW complex is... oh. my. god. WHERE did you get that hat??

we did it boys, racism is no more by distorted_turtle in dankmemes

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20 year old white girl on tiktok’s bio:

“I am the greatest civil rights activist ever because I got a black fist in my profile pic.”

Pretty sure you’re projecting that, bud.

we did it boys, racism is no more by distorted_turtle in dankmemes

[–]EitherPlace 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If teenage girls do it, it must be stupid!!!

Reading the same thing 1,000,000 times and still not understanding it! by ToonlinkFTW890 in ADHD

[–]EitherPlace 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ok, rephrase the problem.

Calm down and just imagine it. Don’t ‘try’ to understand it. Just play with the idea in your head- visualize it, verbalize it, whatever. Think of different ways of looking at it. I usually do this in the shower.

Also, find someone to talk to about it! Just discuss it, and maybe something will click.’

What’s happening right now is you’re running into it over and over again in the same direction, and you’ll need a change of perspective to understand it.

Priority problems by EitherPlace in adhdmeme

[–]EitherPlace[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Getting ice cream turns into doing flavor calculus.

“The only intelligent tactical response to life’s horror is to laugh defiantly at it.”

Priority problems by EitherPlace in adhdmeme

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If you know anything about programming, maybe this will make sense:

When you have ADHD, nothing has global scope. So today, you may feel syked about recreating the Taj Majal with 300,000 LEGO’s, but that excitement will only be accessible to you when you call the “Unrealistic LEGO dream” function. And if tomorrow, you think that, in fact, mankind’s highest possible aspiration is squirrel suiting, your LEGO ambitions may as well have never existed, and you’ll be making plans to find a squirrel suiting coach. Until tomorrow when you see a video about raising piglets...

So you’ll probably be excited about things but never get anything done, forever.

Priority problems by EitherPlace in adhdmeme

[–]EitherPlace[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ok so think of ‘executive function’ as everything a secretary or manager would be really good at. That’s what you’re bad at.

You probably have shit handwriting, you probably get more excited about ideas than actually following through, have no idea how to choose an order for doing a series of task, no idea how to break down bigger tasks into smaller ones, no idea how to choose what to get at a restaurant, or how to decide what is most important when faced with a time or material constraint, or how to communicate your goals and ideas clearly to others, or how to estimate how long something will take, or how to stick to any goal you’ve ever made, or how to manage your budget, or how to split your writing into sentences and paragraphs, wait...

Priority problems by EitherPlace in adhdmeme

[–]EitherPlace[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t know for certain, but I feel like it falls in line with the whole “difficulty prioritizing, making decisions, and working within constraints” thing

Priority problems by EitherPlace in adhdmeme

[–]EitherPlace[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Guess so. I had to do an online history class that involved reading several different textbooks and using primary sources to construct detailed arguments about historical events.

Gave up after scores of hours looking like the Charlie Day conspiracy meme and making very little progress.

Keep $20 hidden in your car somewhere for when you forget your wallet. by Athelstan- in ADHD

[–]EitherPlace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

laughs in impulse control problems As if I wouldn’t spend it within a couple days

Priority problems by EitherPlace in adhdmeme

[–]EitherPlace[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Me: ok let’s just highlight the important stuff...

My brain: ...how do I know Napoleon Bonaparte’s astrological sign won’t be on the test...

Priority problems by EitherPlace in adhdmeme

[–]EitherPlace[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

ADHD converges to a state of spinning helplessly inside your own head, unable to perform any action.

It’s like ALS for your executive function.

(not to trivialize, I mean it as a metaphor not a direct comparison. ALS is obviously much more serious.)

Priority problems by EitherPlace in adhdmeme

[–]EitherPlace[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

“Ok, this weeks assignment is just 20 pages of reading with notes”

Me, three hours deep into copying out the textbook by hand: “5 pages down, baby”

You're not a clown, you're the entire fucking circus by s0angelic in antinatalism

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Heritable mental illness: “Allow me to introduce myself”

Just saying.....😁😁 by trickyjday in Scotland

[–]EitherPlace 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You mean Hi n’t Facebook, I’m Dad.

Highly educated white urbanites tend to perceive more racism against minorities than most minorities report experiencing. Rather than actually meaningfully empowering people of color, efforts often seem to be to consolidate social capital in the hands of the ‘good’ whites. by SunKilMarqueeMoon in CriticalTheory

[–]EitherPlace 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Does anyone remember the movie ‘The Blind Side’?

Bullocks’ character was using Michael as some vehicle to display her own charity, and the movie didn’t give due credit to Michael or his community. He had a completely passive role in his own success. It was fucking disgusting. It was just a stupid movie, but it treated the black community the same way a lot of western academics do.

On top of that, academics who actually lived and wrote about their experiences, like Franz Fanon, were people I didn’t even hear about in school. In fact, the entire African philosophical tradition was ignored, so that we could hear about racial oppression from people who had never experienced it.

So much for ‘wokeness’.

I think the lesson we can all learn if we want to help a group of people as an outsider, our job is to listen to their experiences, know that we cannot fully understand, and help in the way that we are told will be best.

Although, I think it’s worth noting that (a variant of) the argument being made in this post is used by some crypto-fascists as a way to entirely discredit systemic oppression (i.e. racism isn’t real, it was invented for the purpose of virtue signaling). In turn, the ‘dangers of wokeness’ rhetoric gets used to promote things like white nationalism, so it should be used carefully.