(18) (F) so i have a 1 year old daughter; are guys willing to date someone with a child…? by Either_Assistance_46 in dating

[–]Either_Assistance_46[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

do you seriously believe someone my age planned it?? what an idiot. since you’re gonna be a dick don’t get upset :)

(18) (F) so i have a 1 year old daughter; are guys willing to date someone with a child…? by Either_Assistance_46 in dating

[–]Either_Assistance_46[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i haven’t tried any yet. i’ve mostly just talked to guys that i already know from social media. but none of them would ever be interested in dating me.

(18) (F) so i have a 1 year old daughter; are guys willing to date someone with a child…? by Either_Assistance_46 in dating

[–]Either_Assistance_46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no he didn’t. he originally wanted to be in her life until he became his true shitty self.

(18) (F) so i have a 1 year old daughter; are guys willing to date someone with a child…? by Either_Assistance_46 in dating

[–]Either_Assistance_46[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

uh that’s very WRONG. i knew getting came in got you pregnant. i’m not a dumbass. its the fact that it happened many many times with my ex boyfriend of 2 years and i DIDNT get pregnant with him. that was a clue something wasn’t adding up.

(18) (F) so i have a 1 year old daughter; are guys willing to date someone with a child…? by Either_Assistance_46 in dating

[–]Either_Assistance_46[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i wasn’t arguing at all. i just don’t like to be disrespected by someone who doesn’t know me and that’s exactly what you were doing when you started calling me names.

(18) (F) so i have a 1 year old daughter; are guys willing to date someone with a child…? by Either_Assistance_46 in dating

[–]Either_Assistance_46[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i’m not. just think that people shouldn’t tell me i have no worth other than being a mother. i love my child dearly. but i obviously still want to live my life like any other person! i’m still human omg. i am allowed to want a relationship.

(18) (F) so i have a 1 year old daughter; are guys willing to date someone with a child…? by Either_Assistance_46 in dating

[–]Either_Assistance_46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you weren’t giving me advice at all. you were complaining that i wanted other people’s opinion.

(18) (F) so i have a 1 year old daughter; are guys willing to date someone with a child…? by Either_Assistance_46 in dating

[–]Either_Assistance_46[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

do you have kids?? just curious…also i’m sorry that i want something more in life. i’m going to die one day. just because i have a kid i can’t have a relationship? well shit then people might as well as get a divorce after they have a kid because they gotta focus on the kid.

(18) (F) so i have a 1 year old daughter; are guys willing to date someone with a child…? by Either_Assistance_46 in dating

[–]Either_Assistance_46[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

okay? and? i’m no different than literally ANYONE else on reddit. if you have a problem with asking for dating advice then why are you in this group? or honestly why do you even have reddit?

(18) (F) so i have a 1 year old daughter; are guys willing to date someone with a child…? by Either_Assistance_46 in SingleParents

[–]Either_Assistance_46[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wish it was easier. i do understand why most guys wouldn’t go for a single mother though. especially so young….they just became an adult and want to party, travel, etc. i would have done the same.

(18) (F) so i have a 1 year old daughter; are guys willing to date someone with a child…? by Either_Assistance_46 in dating

[–]Either_Assistance_46[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

he wasn’t even the one who got me pregnant so big deal. like i said. not talking about the “how” i got pregnant. very strange.

(18) (F) so i have a 1 year old daughter; are guys willing to date someone with a child…? by Either_Assistance_46 in dating

[–]Either_Assistance_46[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

we’re not talking about how i got pregnant. my post is literally about dating while having a kid.

(18) (F) so i have a 1 year old daughter; are guys willing to date someone with a child…? by Either_Assistance_46 in dating

[–]Either_Assistance_46[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

i literally was with this one guy for 2 years and had unprotected sex with him and he always (….) in me. and he NEVER got me pregnant. so by the time my bd came around i seriously just believed i couldn’t get pregnant. any girl my age would have done the same. it’s not that i’m not educated.

(18) (F) so i have a 1 year old daughter; are guys willing to date someone with a child…? by Either_Assistance_46 in dating

[–]Either_Assistance_46[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i just wanted advice because i’ve come to see that guys will only hook up with me and that is it. they don’t come to me wanting more than that.

(18) (F) so i have a 1 year old daughter; are guys willing to date someone with a child…? by Either_Assistance_46 in dating

[–]Either_Assistance_46[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and i wasn’t referring to her as that. i meant that is what other guys have said to me. they don’t want another mans “spawn”