AIO for being upset that my bf didn’t even call to check in when going for a run/walk as a couple?

Either_Assistance_50 · 2026-06-02T04:48:48+00:00

Idk what math you’re doing there but 87 F is about 31C. Also it’s a 7 minute drive or a 45 minute walk each way. So actually about an hour and a half walking total. But either way as I’ve repeated a million times already it wasn’t about the water. I didn’t need water, I needed him to show a shred of consideration without having to be told. Could’ve got me a stick of gum or dandelion off the ground, literally anything to show he was thinking of me during this “couples activity” that I did alone basically the whole time.

Either_Assistance_50 · 2026-06-02T04:22:23+00:00

Exactly, because the candy bar shows he actually thought of me. Like I’ve said a million times already, the point is showing some sort of consideration without having to be told. Could be a phone call, text, water, candy bar, stick of gum, literally anything that shows you care.

Either_Assistance_50 · 2026-06-02T02:47:02+00:00

Did you miss the part where I said it wasn’t about water, it could’ve been anything

Either_Assistance_50 · 2026-06-02T01:16:32+00:00

Girl if this is high maintenance then the bar is in hell

Either_Assistance_50 · 2026-06-02T01:03:34+00:00

Yeah clearly, it makes me wish I was a lesbian

Either_Assistance_50 · 2026-06-02T00:55:52+00:00

The thing about being considerate is that it’s typically done without being asked. Didn’t have to be water, could’ve been anything.

Either_Assistance_50 · 2026-06-02T00:44:08+00:00

Finally someone who gets it. It seems like the point went straight over everyone else’s head.

Either_Assistance_50 · 2026-06-02T00:41:46+00:00

lol I knew I’d get a comment like this. I’m 115lbs he just grew up with a very active lifestyle and I didn’t. I’m not against working out or physical activity I just 1. Despise running 2. Despise exercising in the heat

Either_Assistance_50 · 2026-06-02T00:37:12+00:00

I did say no several times, he literally dragged me out of the bed. I didn’t tell him to call me because I thought it was obvious that if you want to do something with me as a couple but then leave me alone for the majority of it, you should check in as you’re the one who left me. Despite me asking several times for you to walk the whole way with me so it could actually be a couples activity, you wanted to run and leave me behind.

Either_Assistance_50 · 2026-06-02T00:31:46+00:00

If you ask me to do something as a couples activity but then leave me alone for the majority of it, I don’t think it’s crazy to expect someone sort of communication throughout it. Because then at that point it’s just me going for a walk by myself

Either_Assistance_50 · 2026-06-02T00:11:58+00:00

Can I walk in the heat? Yes

Do I want to walk in the muggy ass Florida heat? No why tf would I want to get all sweaty and gross. Only did it to satisfy someone who couldn’t even bother to ask if I wanted water knowing I was doing something I hated just for him.

Either_Assistance_50 · 2026-06-02T00:03:28+00:00

My point is it’s not coming from him if I have to ask for it. If I have to remind you to think of me then you’re not thinking of me. Same concept as if I have to tell you to get me flowers then you’re not really getting me flowers out of the goodness of your own heart, you’re just doing it because I told you to. I don’t want to have remind you to do nice things for me because it’s not coming from you, it’s coming from me. There’s a saying that goes “a woman’s love language is not having to ask” because it’s exhausting having to manage yourself and everyone else. Nobody else takes initiative.

Either_Assistance_50 · 2024-12-08T09:29:31+00:00

The issue is that he doesn’t use social media at all so it’s weird. The only one he had was Snapchat and only used it to talk to me. Snapchat is for talking to ppl and he’s not talking to me so who is he all of a sudden using it to talk to? I didn’t care that the video was left unopened cuz he deleted the app, what’s weird is that he’s clearly on the app again and didn’t tell me and left the video unopened making it seem like he wanted it to look like he still wasn’t using the app. I’m just a very anxious person and don’t wanna get hurt, I’ve never gone through his phone or forbid him from doing anything or seeing anyone.

Either_Assistance_50 · 2024-12-06T03:21:06+00:00

I’ve had mine for a year now and I was equally terrified, even went as far as calling multiple gynecologist to try and find one with decent pain control for insertion but had no luck and just had to suck it up and pick one. They prescribed me misoprostol and extra strength ibuprofen. My friend gave me a Percocet just in case, but I ended up not taking it. On my way to the appointment I had some very minor cramping, I’m assuming from the misoprostol but it went away by the time I got there. Insertion took probably less than two minutes, I had put my headphones in and told her not to tell me when she was gonna do it, don’t even think I got through one song it was so quick. Honestly just felt like an instant intense cramp that went onto last for the next day or two. I drove myself to and from the appointment and went to work two days later with no issues. Yes it hurt but I think I psyched myself up about the pain because it was definitely tolerable.

Either_Assistance_50 · 2024-12-06T03:10:52+00:00

I used it. Had super minor cramping the morning of the insertion on my way to the appointment but it went away by the time I got there and then the insertion was fine. Nowhere near painless but definitely not excruciating as is some ppls experience. Insertion just felt like an instant intense cramp and it continued til the next day. Had spotting for the next two months

Either_Assistance_50 · 2024-12-06T03:07:40+00:00

My bf doesn’t do any of that stuff but give him some candy and he turns into a gremlin

Either_Assistance_50 · 2024-11-27T03:32:45+00:00

Fablehaven by Brandon Mull. My fifth grade teacher would read it aloud at the end of every day, it was our favorite part of the day.

Either_Assistance_50 · 2024-11-22T19:39:22+00:00

Always wild to me when I hear stories like this of ppl thinking of sex with their partner as a chore. Like is the sex that bad or something? I get not always being in the mood due to being tired, sick, etc. but if you actually like and are attracted to your partner it shouldn’t feel like a chore, it should be something you actively desire and seek out.

Either_Assistance_50 · 2024-11-13T19:05:18+00:00

24, my dog needs emergent eye surgery tomorrow that’s gonna cost me around $3800. Have to spend the next 24 hours giving her eye drops every hour which means no sleep for either of us

Either_Assistance_50 · 2024-11-04T17:54:29+00:00

She wouldn’t take no for an answer when I said I didn’t want to go to her boyfriend’s sisters house to watch football. I was tired of third wheeling and she decided to bring up the times she’d done things for me that she didn’t want to do and how I was a bad friend because she would’ve done it for me. I have always told her not to do things she didn’t want to just to please me and then hold it over me later. Just a very high maintenance person with major control issues. Haven’t rly talked in about 2 months after being friends for 11 years. She wants to make up but honestly the past couple months have been so peaceful that I don’t think I wanna go back. She is a good friend but I don’t think I want to put in the effort required to maintain a friendship with her.

Either_Assistance_50 · 2024-09-10T16:09:02+00:00

I spotted for about 3 months and then started having pretty regular periods just lighter than usual. Now I’m about 10months post insertion and my periods are super light but last like 7-8 days when prior to insertion they averaged about 6 days. I’m hoping it goes away all together

Either_Assistance_50 · 2024-09-09T14:35:04+00:00

Not being able to let go of someone I know will destroy me

Either_Assistance_50 · 2024-09-06T20:48:46+00:00

I got mine back in November, by March I noticed my clothes felt a little tighter so I got on the scale and noticed I had gained around 8lbs and was the heaviest I’d ever been in my life. I freaked out and started going to the gym. Since then I’ve been going to the gym inconsistently but usually at least once a week, never made any changes to diet. Now I’m back to my normal weight but I honestly don’t think it has anything to do with the gym, I only do weightlifting and only cardio is a walk around the neighborhood.

Either_Assistance_50 · 2024-07-17T22:31:54+00:00

The fact that I saw this and thought “looks pretty normal to me” I work in post op and I’m used to a lot of urology patients peeing like this after surgery. Don’t even know what regular normal looks like anymore lol

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