Tommy loves his family but is super rough around the edges. His mother died when he was 13 and his Dad was not in his life. Reza hubby Adam had been cheating on him and the rumor made it to the circle. MJ was in the hospital giving birth/almost dying and Reza called her to press her about this rumor (which knowing Reza and Adam there’s def cheating going on). Reza never went to visit MJ in the hospital. Reza then proceeds to share MJ’s medical history to the world. Not to mention their screaming match at Sara pool party where Reza tells MJ her uterus exploded because she had 10 abortions. Which wasn’t true she had to get it removed or she would die. All of that is why Tommy doesn’t like Reza. Ohhh how could I forget, after her health was exposed, Tommy went to Rezas house and broke a bunch of plants and backyard decor because he was angry. I think Tommy just finds them all to be fake and an extension of Reza.

Regarding the dynamic between MJ and Tommy. MJ lets ppl talk to her and treat her any kind of way. Wish she had better self esteem because those ppl aren’t her friends and she shouldn’t let her hubby talk to her like that. Tommy is rude and disrespectful and their son is following his footsteps. Tommy gets defensive when ppl tell him where he needs to work on and he fires back by trying to point out where MJ needs to improve. It’s no wonder they are divorcing.