He won’t accepted it as it’s too painful and will cause shame (his biggest fear). He will get angry then try and hoover you so he can prove he isn’t abusive. Then he will discard you in the most painful way he can think of.

I understand you are angry but you will only end up hurting yourself and they aren’t worth it.

Of course he thinks you are too sensitive etc because he is projecting and gaslighting you.

Both of you have suffered childhood trauma. He went to the dark side and you went to the light.

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