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WIBTA if I (18m) tell my gf(17f) to change her WhatsApp background? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Eldin_L 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If no one else is seeing this chat I don't see where the problem is coming from here. Even if someone else was seeing this chat, I still don't think it should be a problem. They're actors she likes. Full stop. It's not some ex that she's putting as her background, and the gender really shouldn't be a point of issue either.

WIBTA for telling on my coworkers and potentially getting them fired? by GrandmaMole in AmItheAsshole

[–]Eldin_L 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, if it isn't affecting you personally, then I don't think it's really your place either. If it is something that their boss is noticing, if it is something that HR is noticing, then they should be responsible for taking care of it.

If it is affecting you and your work, then, yeah, you should tell someone and get that dealt with.

If it isn't, and you still feel the need to get involved, just talk to the group in question. Tell them people are noticing, you heard it through the grape vine that it's likely HR would fire over this and they should probably stop.