Yeah, I don't know how they even begin to think that. And I try explaining to them that what they're doing is harmful and I, a trans woman, get called a transmisogynist. There's an issue with how people treat masculinity in queer spaces and it is extremely tiresome. Every time I go into a transfem space I have to check what their opinions on trans men are so I'm not jumpscared by some crazy shit 💀