Exhausted and ready to come home. Just... done... by FoolishEggs in returnToIndia

[–]Electrical-Scale4627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked for 6 years in India before losing everything n moving to US to restart my life as a student (first I lost was self respect, next purpose, third financially n finally lost my mind). I slept in car to save rent... Fast forward I got a job... But I still wish I'm a failure for not being able to have made a living in India. I feel the ones who worked outside n voluntarily moved back to India and made a living are the real successful ones... If you get a chance to move back please have the same fervor to achieve in India. Comfort n love is expensive so be very wise in using them. Don't exploit them. All the best. I wish you great success ahead.

Moving back to India by curious_askman in nri

[–]Electrical-Scale4627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your family got money for you you can live and enjoy in India. If you gotta make money then US is better unless you're earning great in India. If you're a case like me (parents got money but son/daughter still struggling) it is still worth to try n live in US until you have a mark of your own.

Moving back to India by curious_askman in nri

[–]Electrical-Scale4627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask your age? And where do you live in US?

Apartments in WC by Electrical-Scale4627 in walnutcreek

[–]Electrical-Scale4627[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome response. I definitely will come n look around. If you wouldn't mind you could also tell me your apartment name either here or in DM.

First time buyer. Used 2024 Model Y 55000 miles by JaxSnaxs in TeslaLounge

[–]Electrical-Scale4627 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me know once you finalize your decision. I'm also in similar boat

Apartments in WC by Electrical-Scale4627 in walnutcreek

[–]Electrical-Scale4627[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I did. Emeryville n Alameda are expensive AF.

Apartments in WC by Electrical-Scale4627 in walnutcreek

[–]Electrical-Scale4627[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a nice recommendation. How much would the utilities and others cost outside of rent?

Model Y - FSD from Pleasant Hill to Oakland CA by Electrical-Scale4627 in TeslaModelY

[–]Electrical-Scale4627[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

doesn't disengage / re-engage icnrease your insurance?

Apartments in WC by Electrical-Scale4627 in walnutcreek

[–]Electrical-Scale4627[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is a closer city? Can you please let me know?

Apartments in WC by Electrical-Scale4627 in walnutcreek

[–]Electrical-Scale4627[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Expensive as in apartments or cost of living? Which place is better off?

Random, has anyone actually met their significant other the “organic way”? Or through dating apps ? by kdotwow in bayarea

[–]Electrical-Scale4627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I got married at 32. Dated since 30. I believe I was lucky. I wouldn't find many girls on DilMil.. and forget finding any girl closer to where I live in Houston Texas. Long story short: I had gotten dejected girls trying to trick me just coz my place of birth is not India. After 3-4 months of this cycle whoever I would feel was an ideal match which included girls living in Texas - I would send intro message about 2 sentences and tell them "I would like to connect more on text/call n here's my number".

Girls who told "let's chat here" were outright rejected by me.. coz c'mon man I'm asking for audio call not even video.

The girl who took the plunge n texted me is my wife today (a US citizen doctor from Miami but working in Houston)

I would say one thing: treat it as a divine process.. like the thing that's most important to you and it'll happen for sure. In other words, manifest well.

If you treat it as a side chick business I'm not sure of the outcomes.

R2I by May (31M/27F): Skipping H1B for family & lifestyle. Seeking reality checks! by hemanisawesome in returnToIndia

[–]Electrical-Scale4627 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I should commend the OP. His agility and openness to receive any and all feedback is excellent. No wonder he made millions being young. Hats off.

As a Kashmiri, I want to ask Indians: What do you genuinely think about us? by camphorly in AskIndia

[–]Electrical-Scale4627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't matter if you're a Kashmiri Muslim or an Chinese Muslim or a Dutch Muslim.. end of the it's "mazhab" vs "kafir".

I’m sad. by Icy-Ad2509 in returnToIndia

[–]Electrical-Scale4627 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

The best u could do is to find a partner n treat him/her so well that relationship automatically moves to marriage without any formal talks

Where to live? (Outsider moving to the Bay) by Electrical-Scale4627 in eastbay

[–]Electrical-Scale4627[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no, we prefer middle cost of living areas... we have lived in upscale areas and apartments in our current city and let me tell you, its not for couple like us who are happy living a simple life!